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yitzman1
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The most unlikely of matches have been made before so I wouldn’t discount the shadchans motivation for sending you the resume.

Additionally, as a guy I get sent resumes from shadchanim that are way off and it is very frustrating. But ill look at them and make a decision. Shadchanim typically don’t know exactly what you’re looking for since they are involved in setting up many ppl at once, so they may just put you in a category (yeshivish, modern, chabad, etc.)

I don’t think you’re picky. Just don’t expect that every shadchan that sends resumes to you will be on target or even close. There’s always the delete button.