Reply To: Don't try to convince me of what I want!

I hear where you’re coming from, but if there’s one thing I’ve learnt it’s that people mean well. The person who suggested this particular boy knew him from a different setting than the person I got information from. While I definitely agree that a druggie getting married will only bring themselves and their spouses down, some people have plenty to gain from marriage, even if there are problems. I know a nice number of, let’s say, “disturbed” couples who’ve gotten married and literally grew up and matured together. So it really all depends on a million different factors, and no one is able to judge that.