DY -“So we should throw out the tafel?”
Yes, that is exactly my point. You obviously Didn’t read my posts like you claim because that was my very first post.
“Should we allow eating on a taanis because people focus on the tafel instead of the ikkar?”
Fasting doesn’t cause more Sinas Chinum like what happens during Sefira.
“Or, are we so perfect otherwise, that in all areas besides sefirah, we always focus on the ikkar?”
Never said that, but we should always try to focus on the Ikkar.
“Really, the irony of you lecturing about bein adam l’chaveiro while speaking in a condescending, haughty tone, is astounding.”
My OP wasn’t condescending. If you came afterwards and started criticizing -then that’s what kind of response you got.