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I’m not sure why people call it a shidduch crisis? And if we are calling it a shidduch crisis then we have to call everything else a crisis. There are many people out there who are don’t have money and can’t afford the basics so lets call that the poor crisis or whatever you want. For every situation out there are we going to name it a crisis? Why can’t we accept that this is from Hashem and each person who is part of the Shidduch crisis has to take care of it himself and see why Hashem hasn’t sent him is zivug yet. Every person was brought down to this world for an individual purpose therefore not everything that happened to one person will happen to another therefore it isn’t meant for everyone to be married at the age of 20. We have to accept what Hashem gives us and be thankful instead of spending time trying to figure out a way to solve the shidduch crisis. How can you solve something that doesn’t need a solution – its time to accept Hashems ways because after all Hashem does what is good for you.