Another Shidduch Thread

[cshapiro]

Its thursday nite….time for my weekly shidduch advise question…what do I do? I said yes to a guy but he never got back to me, in the meantime someone else said yes to me. Before I said yes to number two, number one said yes, but Id rather number two….what to do what to do?

[☕ DaasYochid ☕]

but Id rather number two

How would you know that if you haven’t met him yet? The grass is always greener…

[doodle jump]

Go out with number two. You mentioned that he took a long time to get back to you.

[dunno]

Tough situation. Sorry I don’t have advice but good luck!

[Sacrilege]

Are you me?!

I’m about to be in the same situation….

Here’s what I am going to do, if guy #1 doesnt get back to you by the time guy #2 comes along you politely apologize and say that you didnt know where he stood so you’ve said “yes” to someone else in the meantime. Dont feel bad, guys do it all the time 😉

[cshapiro]

i said to hashem, u take care of this one, cause idk what to do!??! so i said yes to the second guy cause and i told the first guy he sounds like a really nice guy and if we could put it on hold…..i felt bad, but the shadchan has a lot going on in her personal life i didnt want to bother her again…lol note last week :))))

[TheGoq]

go out with bachelor number 1 monday night

and bachelor number 2 tuesday night

come friday u should know with which one u should continue

sorry cshapiro im channeling my inner popa today 🙂

[cshapiro]

its okay goq, i figured this one out without cr help, just hashems!!! and i think i made the rite choice, i just dont want to play with anyones emotions including my own and i dont do pity dates. with that being said im sure i made the rite choice, therer is no looking back….and ill def keep all my bffs in the cr posted lol ;))))!!! i love u guys!!!

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