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    nathan21
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    id like to use this thread to make an apology to oomis. in our debate i was downright nasty to her on a personal level even though i dont even know her. ( i just know where she lives and some advice is to not to use your screenname as your email address when posting on the five towns shul list) in explaining my opinion i feel the need to bash someone that argues with me and this is completely wrong and i am sorry to oomis for this and i will stop this. oomis has a right to her opinion and i have a right to argue with her but to insult her is disgusting and i have no right to do that and im sorry for that. i agree with her that i think its disgusting that kids threw up on her lawn, lit firecrackers near her house, urinated on her lawn etc. and something needed to be done b/c that is the yeshivas achrayus so the yeshiva stopped the party purim night which i feel is enough but if oomis feels they should do more i respect that and if i were in her shoes i may have that same opinion so just want to wish oomis and all yidden out there a freilichin purim and a safe purim!!!

    #675294
    oomis
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    I accept your apology. Thank you. Your point is well-taken about the other group list you mentioned (should not have mentioned by name, though), but at the time that I signed on here to the CR, I had no idea I could use another name besides my screen name. So it is a moot point.

    Just for the record, my family and I never at any time personally complained to the Yeshivah, you were mistaken in thinking that. We personally went outside each time to tell the drunken boys to get off our lawn and remind them that it was 3 AM and people were trying to sleep. But several of my neighbors, some who moved away from the block in very recent years specifically because of inyanim such as this one among many others, did in fact make their complaints known to the R”Y. I could not bring myself to say something to him, because he was a personal friend of my family, and I felt uncomfortable with the possibility of sounding like I was giving HIM mussar.

    Although apparently (as you stated) the chagiga was stopped (and I merely thought it was quieter because they moved it indoors to their new building), I had nothing whatsoever to do with that, though I was tested time and again by the thoughtlessness that occurred over the years. There were however still some limos coming down the street late at night, possibly with outside bochurim who thought the Yeshivah was still making a chagiga, and this was still a problem, noise-wise. We will see what happens tonight. And I likewise wish you and all of klal Yisroel a freilichen Purim.

    #675295
    ronrsr
    Member

    Apologies and Forgiveness may be among the rarest things you ever see on the Internet. I may frame this thread. Kol hakavod to nathan and oomis.

    #675297
    oomis
    Participant

    Yom Ki-purim is the day in which we ask Hashem’s forgiveness. It is certainly a great time for someone to give it to someone who asks for it ON Purim.

    #675298
    nathan21
    Member

    thank u oomis for accepting my apology. it may take alot to apologize but i think it takes more to truly accept anothers apology and for that i am grateful to oomis for accepting mine

    #675299
    oomis
    Participant

    No problem – it was classy of you.

    #675300
    bombmaniac
    Participant

    yes in a week where we saw this forum descend into chaos, personal insults, and unfortunately, vulgarities, it is refreshing to see this 😀 if only everyone on the internet were like this 😀

    #675301
    haifagirl
    Participant

    I’m not sure if I owe oomis an apology for what I just posted on another thread or not. If so, I sincerely apologize. I wrote what I did simply out of frustration with people (not just oomis) telling me what I feel. It was simply oomis who posted something that was easy to quote.

    #675302
    oomis
    Participant

    Haifagirl, none was needed, but thank you, just the same.To be honest, I don’t r4eally recall the post, so I guess it wasn’t too bad… 🙂

    I would like to comment on the fact that it IS nice to see that menschlechkeit always comes forth in the end.

    #675303
    HIE
    Participant

    Wow, achdus is shown In this thread

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