March 15, 2020 5:13 pm at 5:13 pm #1839979fg3433Participant
If someone does something “foolish” and say it leads to tremendous suffering (it wasn’t whether or not to do a certain mitzvah or aveirah, just something in day to day life), and they look back and can’t believe how they could have done that. Can that person assume that it was “from Hashem” and that perhaps they were being punished for something?March 15, 2020 9:44 pm at 9:44 pm #1840079Reb EliezerParticipant
עולם כמנהגו נוהג – The world behaves naturaly.. Hashem does not interfer in our actions but ‘שומר פתאים ה Hashem protects the fools from the result. I think if they are worthy of it. If they you usually watch out but sometimes make mistakes.March 15, 2020 9:49 pm at 9:49 pm #1840122GoldilocksParticipant
It may be a punishment for acting foolishly.March 16, 2020 11:36 am at 11:36 am #1840351
Please redt Shidduchim to the 21 yr. old boys. Stop them from delaying till 23.March 16, 2020 11:41 am at 11:41 am #1840350
Its about time someone brings this topic up. As an Asken in stopping the Shidduch Crisis I have had many many Shoitim, saying that the Shidduch crisis is a Gezaire, its from Hashem, or my RY doesn`t hold from the Age-Gap.
B’H we already have actual school graphs that clearly show that the boys waiting till 23 are the cause of the crisis. We have true Gedoilin that Paskened that the Age-Gap is the problem. Yet there are boys and their parents that continue their careless idiocy of waiting around till 23. This is not from Hashem. This is not a Gezaire.
This is the continuous Avairedicke way of life. They don
t care about their own sister, niece, cousin, or another Yid. A man made tragedy. They cant blame Hashem. A Baal Bechira is doing this.
Our message is clear, to the 21 yr. old boys & their parents. Stop causing the Shidduch Crisis. Listen to ShiodduchimMarch 16, 2020 11:55 am at 11:55 am #1840366
The older singles in the American Yeshivish circles are not caused by Hashem. They are caused by boys and their parents that dont listen to Shidduchim until 23.March 16, 2020 2:40 pm at 2:40 pm #1840409flowersParticipant
Libb: Are you a Nevuah? How can you possibly know? Did Hashem tell you directly?March 16, 2020 2:41 pm at 2:41 pm #1840429rationalParticipant
“We have true Gedoilin that Paskened that the Age-Gap is the problem.”
A psak. Well, that was a good laugh. Thanks.March 16, 2020 8:39 pm at 8:39 pm #1840466
The Poiskim that signed are Rav Elyoshiv, Rav Auerbach, Rav Shteinman & YLch”Tvm Rav Kaniyevsky Shlita. They state that the Age-Gap is the cause of the Shidduch Crisis, and boys must start earlier because of Lo Samod Al Dam Reyecho.
The school graph that clearly shows this, was taken from the Lakewood schools. The chart is idiot proof.
All of above can be seen on Shidduchcrisis.comMarch 17, 2020 12:15 am at 12:15 am #1840572user176Participant
I read once in the Sefer Ale Shorr that the brothers of Yosef were negligent for not checking their bags before leaving Yosef the second time. They know the money ended up there before, how could they just leave and then swear they don’t have the gavia? It was their own negligence, even for something that wasn’t a missva/avera, that caused their suffering.March 17, 2020 10:38 am at 10:38 am #1840668Reb EliezerParticipant
They could have relied on logic, the kal vochamer for not checking, The money that was in our sack we returned, so how could we steal from you silver or gold? Where they mechuyav to check?
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