Are you very selective in dating or do you date everyone?
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March 13, 2011 2:09 pm at 2:09 pm #595667dunnoMember
?March 13, 2011 2:15 pm at 2:15 pm #748999hanibParticipant
please be selective in dating – unless you haven’t had a good name for awhile and just want to stay in the parsha.
don’t get discouraged – Hashem has already chosen your bashert many years ago.
(i’m talking to all you singles out there.)March 13, 2011 2:24 pm at 2:24 pm #749000popa_bar_abbaParticipant
I am not selective, as long as they meet my criteria.March 13, 2011 2:26 pm at 2:26 pm #749001
very selective…rich, gorgeous football players only, but im sure u knew that by now…:))March 13, 2011 3:04 pm at 3:04 pm #749002☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant
I am very selective. I only agree to go out with people who agree to go out with me.March 13, 2011 3:14 pm at 3:14 pm #749003cofeefanMember
i’m not selective at all. as long as theyre not an axe murderer or a psycho i give them a chance….March 13, 2011 3:31 pm at 3:31 pm #749004
So all you “non selective” will date a Bucharian Yid, despite any ensuing cultural-shock?March 13, 2011 3:48 pm at 3:48 pm #749005passion4musicMember
Oh please everyones selectiveMarch 13, 2011 3:52 pm at 3:52 pm #749007
Cshapiro- I know a rich, gorgeous, football player who’s looking for a girl.
He can sometimes be abusive, he’s very selfish, and not too bright.
Would you consider? We can switch info if yes.
😉March 13, 2011 3:54 pm at 3:54 pm #749008truth be toldMember
passion4music: Since it’s OK to be selective, is it OK to be selective due to food style and culural attitudes?March 13, 2011 3:59 pm at 3:59 pm #749009cherrybimParticipant
“I know a rich, gorgeous, football player who’s looking for a girl.
He can sometimes be abusive, he’s very selfish, and not too bright.”
OJ?March 13, 2011 4:05 pm at 4:05 pm #749010
oh darn, i thought being jewish was a given, and white is def preferable…..the list goes on and on…..March 13, 2011 4:07 pm at 4:07 pm #749011
OJ is available. Maybe someone can put cshapiro in touch with him.March 13, 2011 4:18 pm at 4:18 pm #749012
Cherrybim- that thought alone is frightening!March 13, 2011 4:20 pm at 4:20 pm #749013
Cshapiro- are you really serious about the football player part? (About the rich/gorgeous, I know ur serious!)
I’m wondering if that’s what you have in mind or it’s just a joke that you keep replaying here?March 13, 2011 4:24 pm at 4:24 pm #749014
smartcookie…seriously i thought u were smarter than that…if i was serious about it, id be way to embarrassed to be advertising such shallowness on yeshivaworld :))March 13, 2011 4:27 pm at 4:27 pm #749015passion4musicMember
Truth be told-that was the reason why I said everyone is selective. Some say they’re not, but they really are.March 13, 2011 4:29 pm at 4:29 pm #749016
You’re not serious about being shallow enough to demand someone rich/gorgeous?March 13, 2011 4:31 pm at 4:31 pm #749017
nope, thats just a given!!March 13, 2011 5:27 pm at 5:27 pm #749018
Cshapiro- k that’s good!
Would you care to explain how the football player joke came to be? I mean, why not a pilot or zookeeper or senator?March 13, 2011 6:28 pm at 6:28 pm #749019
if i must…so i have none jewish coworkers who think its fun to try to set me up with every single guy that walks into our office, so i had to give them standards to follow, its pretty funny since they really want me to date this older single guy and im like, sorry Sandra* (not her real name*), hes not rich, gorgeous or a football player, hes not even two outta the three!!!! so then she will leave me alone for a week until she finds someone else…and it goes on and on…March 13, 2011 6:56 pm at 6:56 pm #749020
LOL!March 13, 2011 7:03 pm at 7:03 pm #749021
true story…so i stick to the football players because i am waiting for the day she will find me a jewish single one…dun dun dun dun….until then i share my exciting shidduch dating stories with her and she laughs :))March 13, 2011 7:28 pm at 7:28 pm #749022mddMember
Grandmaster(“myfriend”), you are a farfrumt, very Yeshivishe fellow. Why is trying to be accepting of different types of Yidden, giving a Yid a chance not a ma’ala by you?March 13, 2011 8:30 pm at 8:30 pm #749023
And how will you explain yourself to her when you do get engaged IYH and he aint no player?March 13, 2011 11:23 pm at 11:23 pm #749024
oh i didnt mean he literally plays just built like one…:)) and no worries shes praying that i marry rich so she can come visit me in my villa in spain :)) and come on shopping sprees with his credit card lol!!!
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