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May 20, 2011 1:54 am at 1:54 am #596995ilovetheholylandParticipant
i was just having a discussion with my friend about tznius, but really this could fall under any catagory. i was saying that all the rabbis and everyone say “four inches” and whatever, and some people have NO problem at all doing it! but i was saying that i seriously CAN NOT bring myself to wear that, and i think that if i DID do that, i wouldnt be happy about it. and then i was thinking like lets say with things i watch, or things i read….so i know many people who would NEVER read things that i read but then i know MANY people who have no problem with it. (and im not talking about terrible things…)so i asked myself this question: do i wanna stop doing these things? and my honest answer was……no. i dont really wanna. so if its something that i shouldnt be doing, then why dont i wanna stop???
May 20, 2011 2:01 am at 2:01 am #769325StuffedCabbageParticipantfirst you gotta WANNA stop…whose the focus of your life? you or Hashem? who are you living for? you or Hashem?
May 20, 2011 2:19 am at 2:19 am #769326cucumberMemberYou have a yetzer hara. Just like everyone else.
May 20, 2011 4:29 am at 4:29 am #769327ZeesKiteParticipantAnd I thought confusions were Chinese.
May 20, 2011 3:40 pm at 3:40 pm #769328Be HappyParticipantI am talking to myself but just “saying” the following aloud:
1. If Moshiach comes today and you have a visit from Soroh Imeinu how would you feel with your dress code?
2. After 120 would you have regrets?
Good Luck with your decisions
May 23, 2011 6:38 pm at 6:38 pm #769329adorableParticipantJust because you would not want to be seen this way in front of Moshiach does not mean that you are able to always dress perfectly on a regular day. It hard for everyone!
May 23, 2011 6:49 pm at 6:49 pm #769330whatrutalkingabtMemberAlot of people know that theyre doing something wrong but still dont want to stop because its hard. Like cucumber said- we all have a yetzer hara
May 23, 2011 7:41 pm at 7:41 pm #769331adorableParticipantif you look at yourself and where you were holding a year ago are you better now then you were then or not? i think that is a great test to know if you are heading in the right direction
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