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  • #616243
    Shii
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    Is there still boys out there who want to eventually not stay in learning or chinuch but go to work, but is still a Ben Torah and wears a white shirt?

    #1097838
    Joseph
    Participant

    Yes.

    #1097839
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    There isn’t, but there are.

    #1097840
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Yes, and I’m glad you mentioned the white shirt, because that is the most important part.

    I once knew a guy like you are describing, but he wore a blueish tinged shirt–not really blue, but not quite white either. Obviously it would be inappropriate for a bas melech to marry him. And in fact, it proved out, because the girl he ended up marrying now wears tichels outside the house.

    #1097841
    zogt_besser
    Participant

    nope, that’s not how it works. see, there are two camps: 1. the guys who work and 2. the guys who are bnei torah and wear white shirts.

    #1097842
    golfer
    Participant

    Blueish tinged shirts!!

    Tichels outside the house!!!

    Who is letting PBA post his outlandish posts?

    Are the Mods asleep??

    Isn’t this theyeshivaworld???

    Whoever heard of such unacceptable behavior among us exalted yeshivaworld citizens?

    #1097843
    🍫Syag Lchochma
    Participant

    I wear a tichel outside the house but it doesn’t matter because i am also fat so what do you expect?

    #1097844
    yakrock
    Member

    true story…..i have a friend learning in bmg he is 23 and went out with a girl 9 times. after the ninth date he texted his mother that the date went well but he still cant get used to her looks..about 2 minutes later he got a reply from the girl,”well thats hurtful and you dont have to marry me” he realized his huge botch that he sent it to the wrong person!!!!!!!yikes…does anyone have stories about themselves like this that would like to share

    #1097845
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    true story…..i have a friend learning in bmg he is 23 and went out with a girl 9 times. after the ninth date he texted his mother that the date went well but he still cant get used to her looks..about 2 minutes later he got a reply from the girl,”well thats hurtful and you dont have to marry me” he realized his huge botch that he sent it to the wrong person!!!!!!!yikes…does anyone have stories about themselves like this that would like to share

    Yah, he probably did it on purpose to break up.

    #1097846
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    That is so wrong, popa. He didn’t have to hurt her feelings. He could have just texted her “i dont want to date u cuz your super ugly”.

    #1097847
    skripka
    Participant

    the mods let texting a girl that you are dating slip through as well!! shanda!!

    #1097848
    apushatayid
    Participant

    girl is a 4 letter word.

    #1097849
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant
    #1097850
    screwdriverdelight
    Participant

    better to go outside in a tichul than a shaitel.

    #1097851
    Shii
    Member

    OK, clearly I wasn’t so accurate and asking my question. So I’ll rephrase: Is they’re the type of boy out there that although he’s working he still associates himself with the learning/ more yeshivish world? Does that make it clearer? I know that the color of the shirt doesn’t define a person, but we all know that the outer appearance does point to who He is

    #1097852

    chofetz chaim is the way guys excellent kids and have a future besides kollel!!!

    #1097853
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    It is not tznua for a woman to go outside. kol kevuda bas melech penima

    #1097854
    shuli
    Participant

    RebYidd23, There are women going outside within the frum world?? Wait a second. You mean outside the house? A woman going out of the kitchen we can find heterim for, (only in extreme circumstances, of course) but outdoors?! What have we come to as frum yidden?

    I think I’m going to take on some extra tehillim and I’m going to daven for the future of this nation. I can’t believe this.

    #1097856
    technical21
    Participant

    There are definitely boys like that out there; they’re just becoming harder and harder to find. Chofetz Chaim, Ner Yisroel, and Torah Vodaas definitely do have boys like that.

    #1097857
    Sam2
    Participant

    YU’s running out of boys like that. There are some, but tons of YU guys just want to stay in learning forever.

    #1097858
    Shii
    Member

    I don’t understand why it’s necessary to always make things into a joke. It was an honest question and noones forcing you to answer… Just don’t make a mockery out of someone else’s real question.

    #1097859
    blubluh
    Participant

    A white shirt exposed to real work doesn’t remain white very long!

    #1097860
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    Of course it’s necessary to make a mockery out of everything. Because everything is just asking for you to make a game of it.

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