Dating a girl in the pizza shop

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    slominer
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    Is it okay to take a girl to a pizza shop on a date (during one of the first few dates)? It would be a pizza shop away from the neighborhood of both daters.

    How is going for pizza different than going to a restaurant? (Other than one being milichigs and the other fleishigs.)

    #1395134
    kitov
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    You don’t spend much if you bring your date to a pizza shop.

    #1395137
    WolfishMusings
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    Eees and I went for pizza on our first date.

    The Wolf

    #1395159
    Takes2-2tango
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    As long as the pizza shop also carries sushi then your in a safe zone. If your not sure if they sell sushi then call the girls rabbi for advise. If she has no rabbi try her dad. Just be carful cause he may just challenge you on the bracha made on various types of sushis

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    Meno
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    How is going for pizza different than going to a restaurant? (Other than one being milichigs and the other fleishigs.)

    I once went to a restaurant that was milchigs

    #1395182
    Gadolhadorah
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    Much better to go for a date on Thursday nights when many kosher places have their unlimited chulent specials. Both you and your prospective beschert will have fond memories of that date through at least motzi Shabbos and maybe longer.

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    Joseph
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    “I once went to a restaurant that was milchigs”

    Was it a pizza restaurant?

    Did the girl dump you for taking her to a pizza store?

    “You don’t spend much if you bring your date to a pizza shop.”

    You can use the money saved for the Chasuna.

    #1395327
    WinnieThePooh
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    I don’t think it’s the money aspect- a girl would prefer a free date in a park than one in a pizza shop. First, even if it is not in their neighborhoods, they still might run into people they know. Second, it’s usually crowded and not a great place for a conversation, with everyone on top of them staring and listening in. Also, not the kind of place that encourages lingering over a long meal. Better for the guy to run in, buy a few slices, and take them to a nice park or some place to eat picnic style where they have a bit more privacy and nicer ambience. Keep in mind though, it’s kind of hard to eat pizza politely (hands needed), a girl dressed up on a date might feel a bit awkward eating pizza with a guy she just met.

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    jakob
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    going to a pizza shop for a date is not recommended because “it makes you look cheap & you don’t have money to go to a meat meat restaurant” not all meat restaurants are expensive.

    Hatzlacha

    #1395350
    DovidBT
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    “Keep in mind though, it’s kind of hard to eat pizza politely (hands needed), a girl dressed up on a date might feel a bit awkward eating pizza with a guy she just met.”

    It’s possible to eat pizza with a fork and knife.

    #1395354
    Joseph
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    “it makes you look cheap & you don’t have money to go to a meat meat restaurant”

    What if the guy isn’t look for a gold digger?

    #1395372
    Avram in MD
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    slominer,

    Is it okay to take a girl to a pizza shop on a date (during one of the first few dates)?

    Ask her!

    #1395369
    Meno
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    going to a pizza shop for a date is not recommended because “it makes you look cheap & you don’t have money to go to a meat meat restaurant” not all meat restaurants are expensive.

    Wouldn’t it make you look cheap to go to an inexpensive meat restaurant also?

    And what if you actually don’t have money to go to a meat restaurant? You’re supposed to pretend you have money anyway? Sounds like geneivas da’as to me.

    #1395388
    apushatayid
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    If the questioner was my son, I would say it depends where they are in the relationship.

    #1395421
    Avram in MD
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    apushatayid,

    If the questioner was my son, I would say it depends where they are in the relationship.

    Is it ok to take my wife to the pizza shop?

    #1395460
    apushatayid
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    Depends on your relationship with her.

    #1395535
    funnybone
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    Most people would find it too informal and impersonal. If you are both informal and/or the pizza store is more formal it sounds fine.

    #1395549
    Sadigurarebbe
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    only if you each wash before on a slice of bread.

    #1395583
    takahmamash
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    What’s wrong with going to a milchig restaurant?

    While my wife and I were dating (and after we were engaged) , we went to a place called Weiss’ in Flatbush, a place that was a nice as any meat restaurant. (I don’t suppose it’s still there? I’m talking 27 years ago.)

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