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  • September 26, 2011 6:58 am at 6:58 am #599626
    Chup
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    Can anyone recommend a really good dating book?

    September 26, 2011 3:25 pm at 3:25 pm #812887
    am yisrael chai
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    I Only Want to Get Married Once by C Levitan, Gefen Publishing

    September 26, 2011 4:58 pm at 4:58 pm #812888
    squeak
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    I dont recommend dating books. They are only good for a short term relationship, becaue most people will be bored of them after more than 2 reads. As difficult as it may seem, it is ultimately much better for you to date another person.

    September 26, 2011 5:31 pm at 5:31 pm #812889
    sam4321
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    Garden of peace

    September 26, 2011 5:46 pm at 5:46 pm #812890
    am yisrael chai
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    squeak

    I didn’t know where you were going with this till I read your last sentence 🙂

    September 26, 2011 6:28 pm at 6:28 pm #812891
    mak
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    Squeak: Reminds me of the joke,

    outside of a dog, a book is a mans best friend. Inside of a dog it’s to dark to read. 🙂

    September 26, 2011 7:26 pm at 7:26 pm #812892
    Toi
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    not garden of peace. the author is not held of by the torah community at large. i think dating books are a waste of time. you wont act yourself so its not really you on the date. ask moirei derech for advice and leave it at that.

    September 26, 2011 8:28 pm at 8:28 pm #812893
    sam4321
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    Toi:I know yeshivish people who read garden of peace and gained alot from it.The book has the haskama of R’Eliezer Berland and the Melitzer Rebbe.In addition, the book doesn’t make you a faker it opens your mind to understanding what marriage is really about.if one doesn’t truly act like themselves on a date it is not due to the dating books they read rather they are not true to themselves which applies to everything they do.

    September 26, 2011 8:56 pm at 8:56 pm #812894
    adorable
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    speak to a mentor or teacher who knows you well and not a random book thats made for all types. you need something more personal

    September 26, 2011 10:09 pm at 10:09 pm #812895
    bein_hasdorim
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    Mesilas Yeshorim. Shmiras Halashon.

    September 27, 2011 12:17 am at 12:17 am #812896
    Chup
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    Thankyou guys for all your suggestions. bien hasdorim, yours I’d say would be the best… You just reminded me of what happened to one of my friends, she studied shmiras Haloshon every day for a month on the following rosh chodesh she was engaged!!!! 🙂

    September 27, 2011 12:53 am at 12:53 am #812897
    mewho
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    i recommend that the girls read a good cookbook and the guys read a book about doing laundry, shopping etc.

    September 27, 2011 1:13 am at 1:13 am #812898
    Chup
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    Mewho are you a girl or a guy???

    Btw about my friend learning hilchos shmiras Haloshon everyday for a month, I wonder if I read that book in one day will my zivug show up… I might try it… I’ll keep ya posted if it works…. 🙂

    September 27, 2011 4:02 pm at 4:02 pm #812899
    mytake
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    Tehillem. Loads of it.

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