I dont think i am the only who feels this way, but sometimes parents will say yes to a shidduch because THEY like it. Problem: their daughter is looking for something else. Parents saying yes to something they want doesnt lead a guy to say yes to marry their daughter. Guys can tell so easily that their girl is looking of a different type of guy. Word of advice, discuss the type of guy your looking for with your daughter and then actually look. Maybe that will solve the shidduch crisis.