April 21, 2015 7:01 pm at 7:01 pm #615535superjew623Member
What is your opinion of a girl dating someone who is the same height as her?April 21, 2015 7:09 pm at 7:09 pm #1073553☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant
Horrible. How can she marry someone she doesn’t look up to?April 21, 2015 7:10 pm at 7:10 pm #1073554mewhoParticipant
wow thats any easy one…..what is important to you? being nice and honest etc , being slim , being tall or short?
if height is the most important then good luck to you.April 21, 2015 7:24 pm at 7:24 pm #1073555golferParticipant
Please allow me to respond with an even better question–
What is your opinion of a girl who is concerned enough to inquire about a girl dating a guy – (GASP! Please wait a minute while I get the smelling salts…) – who is the same height as her ???April 21, 2015 7:26 pm at 7:26 pm #1073556Trust 789Member
It’s entirely in the eye of the beholder. Some people care, some don’t. Decide for yourself if you do or you don’t, and don’t care what others think about it.
P.S. It doesn’t make you shallow if you care.April 21, 2015 7:26 pm at 7:26 pm #1073557👑RebYidd23Participant
It’s perfect if you’re going to build your own house. You save money by making the doorways just high enough for both of them. Unless they’re both very tall.April 21, 2015 7:43 pm at 7:43 pm #1073558JosephParticipant
Rav Moshe’s rebbetzin was taller than him.April 21, 2015 7:54 pm at 7:54 pm #1073559WolfishMusingsParticipant
FWIW, my wife is only one inch shorter than me. Very happily married for almost a quarter-century.
The WolfApril 21, 2015 10:49 pm at 10:49 pm #1073560☕️coffee addictParticipant
wow! i didnt know trolls aren’t the same sizeApril 22, 2015 2:29 am at 2:29 am #1073561yaakov doeParticipant
If there really were a shidduch crisis, no girl would ask such a foolish question.April 22, 2015 8:25 pm at 8:25 pm #1073562👑RebYidd23Participant
Who says a girl is asking?April 22, 2015 8:47 pm at 8:47 pm #1073563yytzParticipant
There’s no problem with it. There’s even no problem with a girl marrying a man shorter than her. It does happen sometimes. As long as the girl is still attracted to him and he is secure enough to feel OK about it, there is no problem with getting married. 90% of the time the husband is taller than the wife, but there are always exceptions, and they probably work out fine most of the time.April 22, 2015 10:27 pm at 10:27 pm #1073564golferParticipant
You raise an interesting point, yaakov doe.
Duck though, chances are there are a few mushy tomatoes flying in your direction.April 23, 2015 12:43 am at 12:43 am #1073565lesschumrasParticipant
If height stops a shidduch, no wonder there is a “crisis”April 23, 2015 4:06 am at 4:06 am #1073566yentachayaParticipant
What’s on your “top 5” list? Decide for yourself which 5 things are non-negotiable. The rest you can decide, case by case. If height is non-negotiable, then that’s your answer.April 23, 2015 10:54 am at 10:54 am #1073567Chochom-ibberParticipant
Im taller than my husband. But he knows when he stands on his ego he is much taller then me.April 23, 2015 2:08 pm at 2:08 pm #1073568☕ DaasYochid ☕Participant
1) Doesn’t consider purple her favorite color
2) At least 5″ shorter than me
3) Rich father
4) Likes pizza
5) YichusApril 23, 2015 10:01 pm at 10:01 pm #1073569yentachayaParticipant
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