dating someone your height
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April 21, 2015 7:01 pm at 7:01 pm #615535superjew623Member
What is your opinion of a girl dating someone who is the same height as her?
April 21, 2015 7:09 pm at 7:09 pm #1073553☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantHorrible. How can she marry someone she doesn’t look up to?
April 21, 2015 7:10 pm at 7:10 pm #1073554mewhoParticipantwow thats any easy one…..what is important to you? being nice and honest etc , being slim , being tall or short?
if height is the most important then good luck to you.
April 21, 2015 7:24 pm at 7:24 pm #1073555golferParticipantPlease allow me to respond with an even better question–
What is your opinion of a girl who is concerned enough to inquire about a girl dating a guy – (GASP! Please wait a minute while I get the smelling salts…) – who is the same height as her ???
April 21, 2015 7:26 pm at 7:26 pm #1073556Trust 789MemberIt’s entirely in the eye of the beholder. Some people care, some don’t. Decide for yourself if you do or you don’t, and don’t care what others think about it.
P.S. It doesn’t make you shallow if you care.
April 21, 2015 7:26 pm at 7:26 pm #1073557👑RebYidd23ParticipantIt’s perfect if you’re going to build your own house. You save money by making the doorways just high enough for both of them. Unless they’re both very tall.
April 21, 2015 7:43 pm at 7:43 pm #1073558JosephParticipantRav Moshe’s rebbetzin was taller than him.
April 21, 2015 7:54 pm at 7:54 pm #1073559WolfishMusingsParticipantFWIW, my wife is only one inch shorter than me. Very happily married for almost a quarter-century.
The Wolf
April 21, 2015 10:49 pm at 10:49 pm #1073560☕️coffee addictParticipantwow! i didnt know trolls aren’t the same size
April 22, 2015 2:29 am at 2:29 am #1073561yaakov doeParticipantIf there really were a shidduch crisis, no girl would ask such a foolish question.
April 22, 2015 8:25 pm at 8:25 pm #1073562👑RebYidd23ParticipantWho says a girl is asking?
April 22, 2015 8:47 pm at 8:47 pm #1073563yytzParticipantThere’s no problem with it. There’s even no problem with a girl marrying a man shorter than her. It does happen sometimes. As long as the girl is still attracted to him and he is secure enough to feel OK about it, there is no problem with getting married. 90% of the time the husband is taller than the wife, but there are always exceptions, and they probably work out fine most of the time.
April 22, 2015 10:27 pm at 10:27 pm #1073564golferParticipantYou raise an interesting point, yaakov doe.
Duck though, chances are there are a few mushy tomatoes flying in your direction.
April 23, 2015 12:43 am at 12:43 am #1073565lesschumrasParticipantIf height stops a shidduch, no wonder there is a “crisis”
April 23, 2015 4:06 am at 4:06 am #1073566yentachayaParticipantWhat’s on your “top 5” list? Decide for yourself which 5 things are non-negotiable. The rest you can decide, case by case. If height is non-negotiable, then that’s your answer.
April 23, 2015 10:54 am at 10:54 am #1073567Chochom-ibberParticipantIm taller than my husband. But he knows when he stands on his ego he is much taller then me.
April 23, 2015 2:08 pm at 2:08 pm #1073568☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantTop 5:
1) Doesn’t consider purple her favorite color
2) At least 5″ shorter than me
3) Rich father
4) Likes pizza
5) Yichus
April 23, 2015 10:01 pm at 10:01 pm #1073569yentachayaParticipant@Daas Yochid
Very funny!
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