I’m getting on in my years, and I have some archaic wisdom to pass along if anyone’s interested!
Here is Part One, and Part Two is available upon request:)
Bnos Leader: Part One
People who are well-liked are most often people who smile a lot, and know how to make others feel good about themselves.
Here are the TOP 5 questions we have been asked to address:
How do I discourage cliques and create more achdus in the group?
How do I deal with the very shy girl in my group?
What if not all the girls want to daven Mincha?
Problem #2 Cliques vs. Achdus
Problem #3 The shy girl
Solution # 1
Solution # 2
a. Give tickets during davening for good davening. Then raffle off an extra nosh each week within your group.
To sum up, just remember the word S.U.M.
Smile at your girls.
Understand your girls.
hi eclipse. lovely post and very true. I was a bnos leader for 4 years and it was amazing.
I miss doing Bnos, it was so rewarding.