February 4, 2011 4:31 am at 4:31 am #594777
Do you talk about your involvement in the CR on a date? If you do, do you tell the person you are dating your Screen Name? Or would you rather not bring it up?February 4, 2011 5:30 am at 5:30 am #736608yossi z.Member
I would only talk about it to find out if she is on but only after we are engaged just in case things don’t work out cuz then it would be very awkward
😀 Zuberman! 😀February 4, 2011 5:40 am at 5:40 am #736609dunnoMember
I sometimes talk about what I read in the CR but don’t say my screen name.February 4, 2011 5:42 am at 5:42 am #736610
yossi – good point, If it was getting serious you wouldn’t mention before you get engaged?February 4, 2011 5:45 am at 5:45 am #736611
Imagine you were to get engaged to someone you frequently disagree with – what would be?February 4, 2011 6:01 am at 6:01 am #736612yossi z.Member
If I feel the CR would be something she doesn’t go for (horrors that it could even be true! =D) then yes I would mention it before getting engaged. If I feel she would go for it I would probably do it right before getting engaged if she does go for it but is not on I would probably ask her to join the CR. If she is here already … Well she will know who I am the moment the shidduch comes up
I don’t think disagreement would be an issue because if we disagreed here we would probably disagree on real life and probably not get engaged (though I haven’t really found anybody here that I disagree with that strongly)
😀 Zuberman! 😀February 4, 2011 2:33 pm at 2:33 pm #736613smartcookieMember
RB- guess what? IRL couples disagree quite often. So what? We work it out!February 4, 2011 3:13 pm at 3:13 pm #736614mom12Participant
woudn’t give my screen name.February 4, 2011 3:40 pm at 3:40 pm #736615
cookie – Isn’t one of things you look out for while dating is that you both share the same hashkafas?February 4, 2011 4:34 pm at 4:34 pm #736616smartcookieMember
Hashkfas yes. But there are so many other things to argue/disagree about! Nothing wrong!
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