Do you talk about the CR on a date?
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February 4, 2011 4:31 am at 4:31 am #594777real-briskerMember
Do you talk about your involvement in the CR on a date? If you do, do you tell the person you are dating your Screen Name? Or would you rather not bring it up?
February 4, 2011 5:30 am at 5:30 am #736608yossi z.MemberI would only talk about it to find out if she is on but only after we are engaged just in case things don’t work out cuz then it would be very awkward
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February 4, 2011 5:40 am at 5:40 am #736609dunnoMemberI sometimes talk about what I read in the CR but don’t say my screen name.
February 4, 2011 5:42 am at 5:42 am #736610real-briskerMemberyossi – good point, If it was getting serious you wouldn’t mention before you get engaged?
February 4, 2011 5:45 am at 5:45 am #736611real-briskerMemberImagine you were to get engaged to someone you frequently disagree with – what would be?
February 4, 2011 6:01 am at 6:01 am #736612yossi z.MemberIf I feel the CR would be something she doesn’t go for (horrors that it could even be true! =D) then yes I would mention it before getting engaged. If I feel she would go for it I would probably do it right before getting engaged if she does go for it but is not on I would probably ask her to join the CR. If she is here already … Well she will know who I am the moment the shidduch comes up
I don’t think disagreement would be an issue because if we disagreed here we would probably disagree on real life and probably not get engaged (though I haven’t really found anybody here that I disagree with that strongly)
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February 4, 2011 2:33 pm at 2:33 pm #736613smartcookieMemberRB- guess what? IRL couples disagree quite often. So what? We work it out!
February 4, 2011 3:13 pm at 3:13 pm #736614mom12Participantwoudn’t give my screen name.
February 4, 2011 3:40 pm at 3:40 pm #736615real-briskerMembercookie – Isn’t one of things you look out for while dating is that you both share the same hashkafas?
February 4, 2011 4:34 pm at 4:34 pm #736616smartcookieMemberHashkfas yes. But there are so many other things to argue/disagree about! Nothing wrong!
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