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  • #610941
    eclipse
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    …after you say “how are you” to someone?

    #981385

    yeah, coz i usually say that when theres nothing else to say, so i expect them to continue the convo….

    #981386

    No, i say

    “How are you? How is ur day? Isnt it beautiful outside with the sun shining and the birds chirping and hey watz up? Whats new? Havent you heard that i feel absolutly fantabulocious today? How is your afternoon…”

    till they say “SHUT UP ALREADY!”

    #981387
    Little Froggie
    Participant

    When someone starts a conversation to me with that, I sometimes retort “LIAR!”.

    “Hu?!”

    “You don’t care the least how I am, what can I do for you?”

    #981388
    Bookworm120
    Participant

    I do and it ticks me off when people say “Hi, how are you” and keep going. It sounds insincere and, well, ignorant, because the person does not seem to understand the meaning of the words they just uttered. It almost sounds like they don’t even care.

    #981389
    SaysMe
    Member

    yes

    #981390
    sharp
    Member

    Yes, I always wait for the answer. If I ask it’s because I care and am serious about it.

    I don’t however get insulted when people ask me and keep going. I kind of expect that because I know this question became quite routine and most people don’t think into it too much and that’s ok with me.

    #981391
    the-art-of-moi
    Participant

    Depends on my mood.

    #981392
    eclipse
    Member

    It reminds me of the joke ” I’m ADH-birdie!”

    People need to give people at least a few seconds of genuine interest.

    #981393
    Bookworm120
    Participant

    Attention Deficit– Hey Donuts! 😀

    #981394
    writersoul
    Participant

    I’m not the type who usually says “how are you” so if I do say it, it means I’m actually wondering… though I’m usually a bit more specific than that.

    #981395
    live right
    Member

    “how are you” functions as a conversation opening. you know there is an agenda coming that doesn’t involve how you are doing. but it makes sure that conversations don’t just start abruptly. that’s how we converse in America. politely fake 🙂

    #981396
    SanityIsOverrated
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    I usually say no matter the time of day, “Good morning, good afternoon, good evening, good night. Well that just covered your whole day. Enjoy!” Then I walk out, because I’m allergic to most kinds of social conversation.

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