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Does it bother you when…
A fat balding guy marries a beautiful girl?
A divorced guy marries a never married girl?
The guy in shul always gets what you feel is undeserved kovod?
Your neighbor knows all the local officials and gets favors from them?
[Add the scenario that galls you most]
Well, mind your own business. And be happy for your fellow.
In Yiddish it’s called ‘fargin yenem’. We’ll go one step further and be happy and glad for someone else’s gain. – It’s the trait of Jewishness – ????? ?????.
A divorced guy marries a never married girl?
why should that bother me?
If it works why not
Gabboim -Even though I’m fat, balding and divorced, I’ll settle for a good-looking (not beautiful), never-married girl!
What is the point of this post? Do the Aseres Hadibros not tell us this?
Your neighbor knows all the local officials and gets favors from them?
thats not fair
Gabboim; Thanks! I can’t stand people who do not fargin others.
Who are you to judge who deserves what. Obviously you seem to disagree with HB”H who chose to give them what they have.
So you must really do some serious soul searching, for even though you don’t know it, you’re way off the reservation.
NO, I would say b’h for yenem.
baruch hashem if it works out let it be it seems youre alittle jealous but ill be daan lkaf zchus and say you were only just wondering
to B”H:
Why can’t you fargin the ones who can’t fargin too? That’s also ‘fargin’ing!
why do all the rich guys have nice cars and good looking wives….it’s just the way it is, not sure the point of this post!
I fahrgin everyone everything. I am not a jealous person by nature and wish well for all people. I ALSO wish that they would likewise wish the same for my family and me. Can you imagine if hashem granted everyone’s good wishes for each other? What a world!
Health
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Gabboim -Even though I’m fat, balding and divorced, I’ll settle for a good-looking (not beautiful), never-married girl!
Health, don’t tell me you’re a man, when I always thought you are female….
It bothers me when preventable mistakes are not. (failing to insure a spouse, leaving kids in charge of responsibilities that are beyond their ability are on the top of the list)
THIS
SC – Now why would you think that?
Health- I’m not sure. I guess none of your posts confirm that you’re male and that’s how I pictured you.
This is too funny. Now do I need to speak to you in a more respectful tone? 😉
SC – I never got the impression that you weren’t respectful towards me.
Yochie; first of all 🙂
I really fargin them being good yidden & getting olam habbah,
that’s why I cant stand when they dont fargin yenem.
If I fargin them not fargining yenem, then i’m really not fargining them at all. Farshteist?
B”H
Farshtanti
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