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February 26, 2015 12:05 pm at 12:05 pm #614976why askMember
should i let my 15 year old son in yeshiva get dressed or he is too old
February 26, 2015 12:26 pm at 12:26 pm #1061854TheGoqParticipantYou are never to old to be dressed or to young it gets cold outside.
February 26, 2015 1:48 pm at 1:48 pm #1061855takahmamashParticipantDon’t you think if he’s 15 years old he can decide for himself?
February 26, 2015 1:55 pm at 1:55 pm #1061856someonewithsayParticipantany person can dress up. my grandfather dressed up at 87.
February 26, 2015 2:31 pm at 2:31 pm #1061857GolemGorillaMember{Why ask } Have ur son dress up in a giant Talmud costume, then I psak it’s allowed.
February 26, 2015 2:34 pm at 2:34 pm #1061858zahavasdadParticipantLet him have a little fun, one is never too old to dress up
February 26, 2015 3:06 pm at 3:06 pm #1061859curious yentaMemberAre you kidding me? Let him get dressed up! Im 16 years old and I’m getting dressed up!
February 26, 2015 4:39 pm at 4:39 pm #1061860ED IT ORParticipantare you mad, if you let him dress up it could lead to all sorts of things also dont let him smoke drink or breath, just lock him in a room for purim
February 26, 2015 4:50 pm at 4:50 pm #1061861👑RebYidd23ParticipantTakamamesh, t’s illegal not to get dressed, so it’s not his decision.
February 26, 2015 6:44 pm at 6:44 pm #1061862golferParticipantIt’s hard to answer without knowing where your son goes to Yeshiva.
15 year olds hate being different. Is he your oldest? If you really have no idea what’s done in his yeshiva, ask some of your friends whose boys have been through Purim there. Unless he runs the risk of being the only one (nebbach) with or without a costume, let him do whatever he wants. If he’s a normal 15 year old, he will IY”H provide you with many opportunities to go to war and forbid him to do this that and the other in the next few years. Save your battles for something more critical.
February 26, 2015 7:23 pm at 7:23 pm #1061863ubiquitinParticipantwhat happened last year at 14, did he ask you if he can get dressed up? Did you help him make a costume?
If yes to any of the above, I think it is time to loosen (not cut) the cord
February 27, 2015 9:07 am at 9:07 am #1061864BuyPaintParticipantBuckle his shoes. Let him choose his own wine.
March 1, 2015 5:36 am at 5:36 am #1061865barlevParticipantI’m over 40 and still dress up, chill guys, do what’s accepted in his environment
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