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    Bruchi
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    Why is it that we women pick up on the slightest slur and never hear the good stuff? Criticisms are stored forever; compliments evaporate instantly?

    #956035
    yytz
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    I don’t know! But for husbands to avoid these problems, they should definitely read the related chapter in Garden of Peace by Rav Shalom Arush. It has a lot to say about criticism in marriage, which is really important for men to hear. There’s a woman’s version too, but I haven’t read it.

    #956036
    interjection
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    “Criticisms are stored forever; compliments evaporate instantly?”

    I don’t agree that has anything to do with being female.

    “Why is it that we women pick up on the slightest slur and never hear the good stuff?”

    My father always says that the real reason women can’t learn Gemara is because we’ll hear an entirely hypothetical situation and we’ll find a way to take offense.

    #956037
    heythere
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    My father always says that the real reason women can’t learn Gemara is because we’ll hear an entirely hypothetical situation and we’ll find a way to take offense.

    That’s really funny!

    #956038
    Shopping613 🌠
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    Or it just sounds WAYYYYYY too complicated!

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