I know that this is a three-year ago discussion, but eclipse’s Rosh Chodesh party is a very nice idea! Especially because it’s a girls/ladies thing. Rosh Chodesh is a “Yom Tov” for women and having a get together to inspire in a fun way sounds like a perfect idea.
What do you want credit for…you have the closest relationship to Hashem than most of the entire world! Yes we give credit to a learning disabled person who struggles to finally figure out that 1 + 1 = 2 but if you can win the Nobel Prize then you change the entire world in a way that he will never be able to. The same applies in the ruchnius sense.
“BTs should get most of the credit because they chose a difficult path in life. ”
They actually do!
FFB can credit for keeping themselves religious as raised.
you get credit for doing what Hashem wants YOU to do. it is no one’s choice into which family to be born. Hashem put you in the right place/family to be born, and HE gave everyone their individual path in life. so, the question ‘who gets more credit’? makes no sense.