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  • #1057177
    FFBBT613
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    I’m so sorry! I just want you to know that there are other people in your situation- you’re not alone at all. I can totally relate, & honestly, most people have no idea that I really have no friends! Sometimes it’s much better to be in your own company than false company.

    #1057178
    flatbusher
    Participant

    I am truly sorry to hear this. I know what it’s like to be friendless, but I also had to do inner self evaluation to see what I was doing to be in that situation. I don’t know you or your situation, but I suspect two things: It’s not your hearing issues that is a problem, and perhaps you have also rebuffed friendly overtures from people. Do you tend to be needy and clingy to someone who wants to be friends? From my experience, I know that is a turnoff. It happened to me in my youth and I learned to give people their space even if it meant I was alone or lonely. So take a piece of paper and write down what you see as your weaknesses in forming friendships and what you offer, and then build on those strengths.

    #1057179
    Rema711
    Member

    C.I. Boy I will be ur friend

    #1057180
    Shopping613 🌠
    Participant

    Me too, I have been there.

    Welcome FFBBT613!!!!

    #1057182
    flatbusher
    Participant

    It’s a shame there is no way to get in touch with people who post here.

    #1057183
    Rema711
    Member

    flatbusher yea there is

    #1057184
    Shopping613 🌠
    Participant

    No there isn’t…

    What way?

    #1057185
    flatbusher
    Participant

    I notice that this thread began 6 months ago and FFBT613 picked up on it just a few hours ago even though the original poster doesn’t appear to be around, or at least he hasn’t posted in response to anything. I think people should be more careful about restarting old threads.

    #1057186
    Rema711
    Member

    flatbusher me too

    #1057187
    👑RebYidd23
    Participant

    There is a way. You put a classified ad in the paper.

    #1057188
    kj chusid
    Participant

    I would give anyone who wants my number from here it i would post it. I have no problem

    #1057190
    flatbusher
    Participant

    Moderators won’t let you

    #1057191
    kj chusid
    Participant

    I know

    #1057192
    Rema711
    Member

    kj chusid unless u become a mod but…

    #1057193
    kj chusid
    Participant

    Ah levai

    #1057194
    Rema711
    Member

    kj chusid do u like living in kj

    #1057195
    kj chusid
    Participant

    Yea it’s nice

    #1057196
    Rema711
    Member

    kj chusid do u own a big house in kj

    #1057197

    Kj chusid i was just in kj and i think i saw you. You were by the 4:35 minchah, in the back left corner, on your phone? Of course i have no clue what you look like,i just saw that guy and thought of you.

    #1057198

    And CI Boy: you always have friends here on the CR. Anyone who believes in Hashem is a friend of ours here. We don’t see anyone, so we don’t get to discriminate based on chitzonios.

    #1057199
    Rema711
    Member

    yayin yashan bkli chadash did u take a pic of kj chusid

    #1057200
    kj chusid
    Participant

    I daven in bnei yoel shul and I don’t take my phone out in public

    #1057201
    kj chusid
    Participant

    And no I have a decent home but nothing that fancy

    #1057202
    Rema711
    Member

    kj chusid so u walk a few minutes to get to shul

    #1057203
    oomis
    Participant

    I like to think that we are all friends here, just that most of us have not met each other IRL. Sometimes it is easier to be friends with people whom we do not see, especially when we are shy. I would hope that people feel comfortable in the CR to express themselves (respectfully, of course) on most any subject, and about their feelings.

    #1057204

    Is it assur to have a smartphone in kj?

    #1057205

    And i was in yetev lev, so it wasn’t you.

    #1057206
    Rema711
    Member

    kj chusid u aren’t allowed to own a smartphone in kj

    #1057207
    kj chusid
    Participant

    I never went inside over there and plenty of people have smartphones

    #1057225
    a mamin
    Participant

    CI Boy : Didn’t mean to go off topic, how are you doing???

    #1057226
    flatbusher
    Participant

    A mamin, dont know if you noticed but CI Boy first posted 6 months ago and from what I can tell has not commented on any of ther recent posts.

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