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    ujm
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    The RCA prenup results in a Get Me’usa when the husband gives a Get to avoid the monetary costs stipulated in the prenup even though he doesn’t otherwise want to give it (despite having signed before marriage). This is despite the RCA’s verbal gymnastics trying to call it mezonos, when al pi Halacha it is too high a dollar figure to be considered mezonos (even if you try calling it that) and it is Halachicly considered a knaas (which even his original agreement doesn’t alleviate the Halachic problem of knaas) to pressure him to divorce; and thereby resulting in a Get Me’usa.

    #2177043
    ujm
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    Avira, would you consider many MO conversions potentially invalid, given the issues you outlined?

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    n0mesorah
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    Dear Avira,

    That means the beis din backs the legitimacy of the contract.

    #2177159
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Ujm,

    You misquoted my citation. L’chol hadayos the Rambam was not michaven to your misquotation. yesh omrim that he only codified these ideas for you to cite them as you please. But then my citing any Rambam, is mufrach ma’ekaro.

    In plain English, I’m not sure what you are trying to claim.

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    n0mesorah
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    Dear Avira,

    “They are definitely going to have more of it”

    You sound so sure of it. The leaders of the YV are not. To put it mildly, they are pulling their hair out.

    #2177161
    n0mesorah
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    Dear Avira,

    I have no idea where got that I have such an idea that most …..

    I don’t want to go there, and probably neither do the mods.

    But it was not about the Rabbonim that are issuing the gittin.

    Okay. Truce. Let’s drop it.

    You don’t seem at all familiar with the inner workings of the American Rabbinate. Modern or Traditional. I don’t want to air endless dirty laundry online. Next time check your own backyard before commenting on your neighbor’s driveway.

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