Home › Forums › Decaffeinated Coffee › girls and boys texting???
- This topic has 16 replies, 15 voices, and was last updated 13 years ago by HaKatan.
-
AuthorPosts
-
April 22, 2012 5:33 pm at 5:33 pm #603037yep123Member
Is there anything actually intrinsically wrong with it? obviously im talking about before marriage!
April 22, 2012 6:34 pm at 6:34 pm #869726CsarMemberAssur gomur m’doraisa.
April 22, 2012 6:57 pm at 6:57 pm #869727yoyo56Membercsar: where does it say that?
April 22, 2012 6:58 pm at 6:58 pm #869728dhl144Memberok any1 still on this one? its a crazy topic so many ppl have this PROBLEM and its a problem
April 22, 2012 7:01 pm at 7:01 pm #869729ItcheSrulikMemberAnything that a boy can say to a girl in person can be said via text message. However using txt spk is assur m’dioraisa m’shum lo sonu
April 22, 2012 7:16 pm at 7:16 pm #869730tajikpashutMember“The industry” has a very large hold in texting so a little caution won’t hurt.
April 22, 2012 7:36 pm at 7:36 pm #869731cinderellaParticipantSo definitely wrong. Because it only leads to hanging out –> shomer negiah is out the window… You’re kidding yourself if you think otherwise. And it only gives you a bad reputation and your parents won’t trust you… You can tell yourself it’s just for fun but it gets way out of hand…
April 22, 2012 8:42 pm at 8:42 pm #869732dal94Memberwell it depends on the circumstances????wat kind are you refereing to?!
April 22, 2012 8:50 pm at 8:50 pm #869733CsarMemberyoyo56: where does it say that?
See Igros Moshe E.H. 4:60.
April 22, 2012 10:45 pm at 10:45 pm #869734OneOfManyParticipantHowever using txt spk is assur m’dioraisa m’shum lo sonu
lol ttly
April 22, 2012 11:13 pm at 11:13 pm #869735sammy16Memberits definitely a big time waster and can u tell me anything good that ever came out of it?
April 22, 2012 11:28 pm at 11:28 pm #869736Sam2ParticipantCsar: Interestingly, several of R’ Moshe’s concerns go away when there is no physical presence with each other. Even he might not hold that texting is D’Oraisa.
April 22, 2012 11:36 pm at 11:36 pm #869737ultimateskierMembermy veiw on this is that most teenagers dont know how to make correct dicisions (thats a whole nother topic i can go on forever about but bscly i think that the chinuch nowadays robs kids of teaching them how to think n that leads them to not know how to make good decisions so the second they realize e/t is laid out for them n its actaulyl pointless they dont know that theres a middle path n just go off the derech) which is why for the most part i dont think teenage girls n boys shoudl be texting!
April 22, 2012 11:42 pm at 11:42 pm #869738ItcheSrulikMemberThere are certain places where you can’t complain about bittul zman without sounding a little funny. The coffeeroom is one of them.
April 23, 2012 1:37 am at 1:37 am #869739shtiky shloMemberi think its an unbelevable time waster an im sure moshe would agree
April 23, 2012 4:28 am at 4:28 am #869740ZeesKiteParticipantCould I kindly stick in my little (pudgy) nose here?
I’m certainly not qualified to render any halachik decision. I will just state of one case of texting I know where it came to (let’s put it mildly – edited). Right, a frum looking (married) man texting to likewise opposite …
Let the reader decide…
April 23, 2012 5:53 am at 5:53 am #869741HaKatanParticipantI believe it is definitely assur miDiOraysa, though how many issurim is a good question.
Regardless of how many issurim diOraysa AND diRabbanan, it is also extremely foolish behavior for both genders.
-
AuthorPosts
- You must be logged in to reply to this topic.