Here we go again

Zeeskite – don’t take one person to heart (or even a few). There are always posters here who can be quite nasty.

I for one happen to like you (or what I know of you from the cr). Most of the time we are on the same page… but even when we’re not- who cares? We are all entitled to our opinions. The idea is to be able to express them without being bashed.

Coffee Addict – I agree with you totally. When will we learn????

Hi, CA.

No. It’s not that at all that kept me away for some time. Iv’e taken a bigger, much bigger beating in the past. One that really sent me reeling (bawling). Still, I came back. I learnt (and still continue to learn) how to communicate, interact etc. (hence ‘Midos under construction’)

It’s just that lately with this awareness of internet dangers (and accessories), I’d like to wait, to decide what to do. On one hand, while I don’t know if anyone appreciates (or puts up with) my input over here, I certainly enjoy it (oh, really). It gives me feeling of togetherness, camaraderie, friendship. Learning different subject, debating, discussing. Watching human interactions, different personalities as they engage in open (and closed) dialog. Real fun, interesting. Then there’s maybe a bit of humor someone (or humble me) puts in, to brighten the day, a sunshine for us to smile at. ???? ?????? ??????. Also I maybe, could be, honed some writing skills (thank you chrome auto-spell-checker), Mommy would be proud of.

On the other hand, maybe it’s not the right thing. Too much online, (must I say the word ‘addiction’?) Maybe it’s bitul zman, although any shmoozing would be considered so.

So I’m a bit confused. I wanted to wait, to see when the dust settles, how ‘Klal Yisroel’ would react. Right now most people I see are still ‘under the influence’, under the spell of the ruach of the Gedolim’s asifa. It’s too hard to see where it’s heading to. Are all non-business related going to be banned? Is that ??? ?????? ?????? ?????? (I could argue that it’s business related because YW – our gracious host – maybe gets some business through our posts, some would call that a stomach thought.) How much permitted, prohibited.

I didn’t want to be the ??, the scoffer who undoes the ‘hundred admonishments’, one of those who ????? ???? writes ??? ?? ??? ????? ???. I certainly do not want in the least to break the powerful effect, spell the Gedolim, the great Asifa itself, cast over the public.

coffee addict- you are a true addict and are out of control it is because of people like you that stories get misinterpretted bringing up

http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/so-why-am-i-going-to-citifield

was completely uncalled for!

that’s your response? I said I was answering your post, not commenting on the thread.

I really don’t think ZK’s absence has anything to do with one hothead’s remarks. Perhaps ZK is busy these days or was inspired by the Asifa to waste less time. Perhaps a little of both.

CA: I dont like name calling either but I have noticed that you sometimes jump to defend posters who were called names without noticing that perhaps they had asked for it on some level. I think when posters twist other posters words into things they never said and then slam them for saying it it brings a lot of discord, and people dont always respond with restraint. And this happens a lot in political threads. However, I find these bandwagon threads calling for justice on a crime that never happened spread negativity. But I do think you do it with a caring heart and all the right intentions. JMO for whatever its worth.

Is that why? I assume when someone leaves that its because joseph has emailed them and threatened them unless they leave.

Just sayin’

Syag: Contrary to popular belief, I too have feelings. Sometimes more sometimes less. I too get moody (understatement). Sometimes depxxxxed too. So sometimes things hurt me a lot more than other times. If I’m down and someone chooses to sling a good one at me (not that I don’t deserve it), it may knock me down hard. So no, no one should really resort to name calling etc. I hope, sincerely hope I have not done the same. If I did, if anyone was hurt or slighted through me, I humbly beg forgiveness.

In this case however it just happens to be I was not so put down. Why? Don’t know. Maybe I told myself (I talk to myself) to let it pass. Maybe I said let the stab be a kapara. Maybe I thought that he’s a big Talmid Chacham, and it’s his Torah that’s boiling in him. ??????? ??? ????. Don’t know. I just somehow let it pass.

And about the debate itself, I just have no wish to continue, not that I concede at all. In fact HaLeiVi started a thread on this same topic – showing the true meaning of the sources, corroborating my stance (it’s not my own, obviously, it’s from the books I come in contact with). In fact I have many other sources and references that HaLeiVi didn’t mention. It’s just that at some point (where no chilul HaShem or bezayon Torah or Talmid Chacham is involved), arguing and debating further serves no point.

Now, where’s the <BACK TO THE FUN> button?

-now that you see I was right -you should apologize to me

Not only don’t you regret shaming someone, you actually think you deserve an apology!?

And why do the mods let some people be as agressive as they want but my posts which, though angry, are not disrespectful and have all been deleted.

thanks 🙂

Oomis, Thank You!!!

You’re much too smart to get fooled.

(let’s see if this goes through)

moi aussi:

I guess subtle, small ones go through, now.

The real ones (my blood screaming out) get trashed each time.

and Yes, there was never a shadow of doubt to high administration as to my innocence. Could not have been. Will not elaborate ??”?.

and No, I don’t seek revenge ?”? (as per my occupation, in profile), I want closure. (I am human)

WIY, see Chulin 19a, 5 lines from the top.