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To those that open up on YWN cofee room and share their questions and life stories- kol hakavod!
To everyone on yeshiva world coffee room: for some people this forum is the only place people feel safe sharing their personal feelings, stories and real questions. They feel safe because they do not have to share their real name.
I’ve been noticing that some people are just answering some posts as if they are a joke. I will not mention the names of those people as it would be lashon hora and rechilus but you all know exactly whom I’m referring to. I honestly do not think you understand the depth that your responses hold. If you take the time to give the person honest, heart to heart responses you can save a person who never thought there was hope of getting their private personal questions and concerns answered. Yet if you just make light of a persons situation and respond in a joking manner you can destroy this person’s last feeling of hope!
MY POINT: THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK!!!
If you take the time to give the person honest, heart to heart responses you can save a person who never thought there was hope of getting their private personal questions and concerns answered.
I don’t know which is worse – that fact that people would put private personal questions on the internet, or that they would trust anonymous people (who could be anyone) on the internet to give them correct and proper answers.
Againstallthishock, have you ever considered that maybe some people come here because they need a place to share their thoughts and jokes?
Some people are able to use humor in expressing profound responses to serious inquiries.
HURRAY!!!!We’ve finally reached the day where someone says that EVERYTHING I say is read and heeded!!!
This will be FUN!!! Mind you, care to rewind (mine) to 001 (actually I think you’d need 0001, mine go back a loooong way). Plow your way through all of them… every single narishKite and quip…
Were some posts deleted in this thread?
I’m starting to stop.
and BTW (buy whichever way you want) Welcome to the CR. Were EVERYONE’s welcome. To Share anything! More of the humorous, fun convo, squabbling and plain chit-chat stuff than the intimate, private, earnest, life decision questions and quandaries normal people would go to professionals for. They’re bound by confidentiality laws etc…. we aren’t. The very nature of this place is for someone to come by read and give chizuk. A lift. A smile. A break from reality….
And mind you, I will not C”V let you accuse RebYidd (whichever gender he is) of being “mevayish chaveiro birabim”… In all time I’ve read her posts I’ve not seen one bordering on L”H, Oonaas Davar, Mevayesh or anything to that extent…. He is one of the nicest to grace our place… I don’t always catch on to what she’s writing, (sometimes it takes long), but it’s one I know is ALWAYS Lashon Hara free.
Againstallthisshock -shkoyach!
“And mind you, I will not C”V let you accuse RebYidd (whichever gender he is) of being “mevayish chaveiro birabim”…”
I didn’t think he was.
And number two…
I’ve been here quite long enough (actually TOO LONG!!). Seen these cycles come and go. You have these long timers with their issues, predicticalities, come to the board each with his/her take. And then wvey now and then, a new one logs on and bashes the crowd, without having to know the very nature of its fabric…. to quote האחד בא לגור וישפוט. (oh, who said that?)Cool down. Get to know us. And then… (everyone quick.. close your ears)
Thank you, Little Froggie.
btw, I do agree with everything that LF said about RY. RebYidd is the best!!!
“to quote האחד בא לגור וישפוט. (oh, who said that?)”
Precisely the point.
Againstalthishock, my pronouns are “they” and “their” because I wear the crown.
LuL: That quote is not an incorrect one. A good line, one can learn from anyone. Meforshim do not criticize them for this statement. As too Chazal learn a thing or two from Lavan & Co. (ויעש משתה) A good thing you can learn from anyone.
againstallthishock: You try getting a straight answer from RY – good luck!!!!!!
And lest you be surprised later – Lilmod Ulelamaid is a girl!
Doesn’t having the word “maid” within a name kind of give it away? Its a pretty good pun saying shes a servant of G-d.
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