How To Respond to a Brocha/Mazel Tov

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    When we go to simchos, and wish a mazel tov to the ba’al simcha, many times the ba’al simcha will say “thank you, boruch ti’hiyeh, or brucha tehi”. In addition to these, are there other ways to respond properly to a mazel tov/brocha? What would be appropriate, and is there a mikor for this?

    #684228
    bombmaniac
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    yes. the response is “thanks for coming…your presence is costing me 100 dollars pay up!” lol but seriously a good response is “IY”H by you”

    #684229
    oomis
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    The proper way to respond to ANY kindness, be it a physical action OR a bracha, is to say thank you. I”YH by you b’shaa tova u’mutzlachas is especially appropriate for a simcha-related bracha. And if someone says to YOU I”YH by you, PLEASE say thank you and amein. Too many girls get their hackles up at a chasunah because someone thoughtfully has “metchemmed” them. Because they may not be in a relationship at that moment, they resent the bracha, and that is a terrible mindset and attitude to show someone who meant well.

    #684230
    smartcookie
    Member

    Why not beruchim tiya. Its such a nice bracha.

    #684231
    Be Happy
    Participant

    “Hamavoirach yisborach” also a nice reply to a brocha

    #684232

    Many years ago when I was in shidduchim, I would get a lot of IY”H by you, and I was very greatful for the brocha and always said Amein, thank you–(and I was definitely not “one of the first”).

    I’m interested to hear other ways people respond when they are the ba’alei simcha at a bris/kiddush, Bar Mitzva, L’Chaim, Wedding etc.

    #684233
    AZOI.IS
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    estherh, I like that. Hamevorech Yisborach works for male, female, singular and plural. No thinking needed.

    #684234
    Phyllis
    Member

    I think it is nice for the Baa’l simcha to try and either compliment the guest…thanks for coming you look great, who did ur sheitel i love the style…..or ask the guest something personal, which I tried at my wedding with each friend that I danced with. For example – “How is your job at the …coming along?” or “how is your little one behaving these days?”,or “I am so glad you could make it, who is babysitting” or “How was your brothers bar mitzvah, my sister was there and she said it was beautiful…” etc. etc.

    #684235
    Poster
    Member

    Phyllis, nice. most pple are too preoccuppied to have their thoughts so collected!

    #684236
    bein_hasdorim
    Participant

    1)Im Yirtzeh Hashem Baaah Deeeer uooooof Simchas, Bekuuuriv Maaamish!!!

    2)Den you give a Big Vink Wit Di Eye,

    If to di opposite gender, den skip part 2.

    #684237
    bombmaniac
    Participant

    AMEN! very funny :D:D:D

    #684238
    oomis
    Participant

    Beinhasdorim – LOL!!!!!

    #684239
    bein_hasdorim
    Participant

    I had a bad experience with part two, when not used as directed.

    So I loook out for my peoples. 😉 OUCH! NOT AGAIN!!!

    #684240

    Very nice and helpful (and cute) responses. Greatly appreciated.

    #684241
    oomis
    Participant

    “I had a bad experience with part two, when not used as directed.

    So I loook out for my peoples. 😉 OUCH! NOT AGAIN!!! “

    Did you perhaps mean look out for your PUPILS????

    #684242
    bein_hasdorim
    Participant

    LOL! I make typos, but their not that off! 😉

    #684243
    bein_hasdorim
    Participant

    They’re more like… using Their instead of They’re, as I have unintentionally demonstrated in the previous post.

    #684244
    A600KiloBear
    Participant

    BS”D

    Responses include: “Kushen tzitzis,” “Who invited you anyway,” and of course when a machloikes is involves, the standard “Shygetz Aross”.

    #684245
    bombmaniac
    Participant

    lol

    that or “yeah…yeah…whatever…just gimme the check…”

    #684246
    koma
    Member

    “Besimchot Etzlechem” puts smiles on most peoples faces.

    #684247
    chofetzchaim
    Member

    When someone gives you a bracha you should respond “Amen” and also give a bracha back such as “v’chein l’mar” or “baruch tihyeh”

    It should also be noted that “shkoyach” does not mean thank you. It is a bracha as well (it should be “yasher koach”). Someone once told me that by saying “shkoyach”, you miss an opportunity to say “thank you”

    #684248
    Peerimsameach
    Participant

    if someone tells you your good looking, or they go on to say a maala of you its proper to say “chasdei Hashem” u had nothing to do with it… its all from the Abishters kindness

    #684249
    mamashtakah
    Member

    The Admor of Sherputz, Moreinu v’Rabeinu HaGaon Shloimala Rosenbaum, shlita, has taught his talmidim always to answer a mazal tov with “IY”H by your simchos.”

    We should all be zoiche to greet Moshiach with the Rebbe, shlita, bimhayra v’yameinu amain.

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