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  • #596105

    adorable
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    I was driving down the block and stopped at a 4 way light. It is a very busy intersection and as I was waiting at the light I looked down for a minute and heard a HUGE bang. I looked up and saw a car flipping over. I cannot imagine that anyone would make it out alive but I don’t think that anyone died either because cars do tip and ppl make it out alive.

    #757102

    HAKOL TOV
    Member

    nothing in this world happens for nothing!

    if hashem make you be there at that moment that hte car flipped he did so for a reason!

    to wake you up!

    #757103

    popa_bar_abba
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    Wow. That is pretty close.

    #757104

    amama
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    wow, that sight is certainly something that can shake one up, but go take care of yourself, go relax for a few minutes, doing whatever you like to do.

    #757105

    aries2756
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    adorable, are you ok? are you home alone? Maybe you shouldn’t be alone right now. What you saw is very traumatic and when you witness something like that it usually it is better to be around other people and not try to digest it alone. The whole thing can feel very surreal and being around people helps to ground you and allows you to talk it out of your system.

    #757106

    Wow. It must be quite frightening and unnerving.

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    Thank Hashem

    #757107

    Aries: She has the whole CR behind her.

    #757108

    GumBall
    Member

    aries2756 are you some kind of physychologist (sorry about the spelling!!lol)?? but HAKOL TOV thats a really good one!!

    #757109

    real-brisker
    Member

    aries – What do you think she is doing here?

    #757110

    adorable
    Participant

    aries- I was on the way back to work after an appointment and had to come straight here…. I am alone in the office now and dont think I can get any work done! Thank goodness its almost the end of the day! I wish i wold have stayed a little longer and watched them get the guy out but I had to run…. Very scary to watch but I think I have to learn to drive more carefully! I am definitely going to be working on that now!

    #757111

    always here
    Participant

    we’re here for you adorable~ talk it out here as much as you need to. …hoping to hear that you’re calm soon.

    #757112

    GumBall
    Member

    why dya need 2 work on ur driving cuz that man dosent know how 2 drive?? LOL

    #757113

    aries2756
    Participant

    Adorable, of course something like that will make you more cautious and it is always a good thing to be cautious and not to take anything for granted. There are some crazy drivers out there and sometimes accidents happen to good drivers because of animals that run across the road, or things that fall off of moving vehicles and sometimes because of glare. It must have been really unnerving being alone int he office when you really need to feel another human presence and probably could have used a hug. Human touch is very comforting and can be very soothing and helpful to calm down especially when you have the shakes after a trauma.

    WE need to assume that the driver was wearing seat-belts and therefore there was a good outcome. We have heard of such outcomes in the past and seat belts saving lives, so please assume that it was the case in this instance and that even though there could have been some broken bones and bruising, or they could have walked out without a scratch, that the seat belts and air bags did their job and it was just a huge scare for everyone.

    #757114

    always here
    Participant

    GumBall~ sorry, but: serious accident does not equal LOL :/

    #757115

    aries2756
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    Gumball, I’m a Certified Life Coach

    #757116

    LuvMe
    Member

    was it the one on the corner of routes 59 and 306?

    #757117

    GumBall
    Member

    wooooow! coooooooool aries !!!! but…….watz that??

    #757118

    aries2756
    Participant

    You know how to write on the YWN but not google Life Coach? Come on your pulling my leg.

    #757119

    I’m thinking……. maybe there should be an age requirement for the CR.

    #757120

    I was there too (after the fact) and was so shaken up. I kept checking news websites because I was hoping to hear that everyone is okay. I really hope they are! Just a reminder not to take anything or anyone for granted because Hashem can turn things over from one minute to the next.

    #757122

    always here
    Participant

    smileyface136~ I agree. as I’ve said in the past, there should also be a cocoa room 🙂

    #757123

    ZeesKite
    Participant

    smileyface136: Too bad! Mommy lets me (for another few minutes.. time out, I had to look for the ‘!’ key).

    #757124

    observanteen
    Member

    Smiley: Do you mean sechel, or the amount years?;)

    #757125

    adorable
    Participant

    Thank you everyone out there for your support! I came home and went to bed but I am still shaking when I think about it! I have seen accidents happen close up before but here I watched the car tip and I saw everyone just standing there for about 5 minutes not sure what to do while there might have been someone under there dying! I think everyone was shaking and not sure what the right thing is to do.

    LuvMe- yes that is where the accident happened! Do you have any details?

    #757126

    aries2756
    Participant

    No news is good news. If there were fatalities you would have heard about it.

    #757127

    mytake
    Member

    luvme, correction, and adorable

    So you’re all from Rockland County?

    #757128

    adorable
    Participant

    luvme- is my co worker! LOL just found out from this post but I dont know who correction is…what about you mytake?!?!?!

    #757129

    cherrybim
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    #757130

    mewho
    Participant

    adorable, i hope you did not look down in order to send a text message

    #757131

    always here
    Participant

    cherrybim~ thank you for the photo link. B’H they’re ok.

    #757132

    adorable
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    wow thank you for the pictures they are amazing that is what i saw! i was not texting but i thought about that before you even said it!

    #757133

    Health
    Participant

    I guess consider yourself lucky that it still affects you. I’ve been numb since childhood. No, it’s not my career choice or too much TV, just when I was a kid I was exposed to -too much stuff in the street, like a neighbor (goy) chasing his girlfriend around the car pumping bullets into her.

    #757134

    am yisrael chai
    Participant

    Health, that’s a real tough one. I can see you are very intelligent, so I’m sure you know that you need to make sure that the experience doesn’t turn into PTSD. Numbness is a great coping skill for a kid at the time of such extreme violence that unfortunately you had to witness, but it doesn’t serve people well as adults. One cannot feel much pleasure either when numb. Just as it’s not unusual for people who have neuropathy in their extremities to have the numbed area pierced w/ needles, etc., by doctors during testing…so too the numb person will unconsciously stick “needles” in situations to cause hurt so he/she could feel…

    I had an experience as a young kid where I saw 2 neighbors in front of my house in such a fight over a parking spot (I use the word “adults” loosely)that one of them died on the spot (no pun intended). I remember how that was so difficult to see, but yours is way more violent.

    We feel for you.

    #757135

    adorable
    Participant

    Health- I have a cousin (very distant but still a cousin) who shot himself in the leg once because of soemthing dumb like that….. I cannot imagine how are you dealt with that stress as a child!

    #757136

    mytake
    Member

    Well I don’t live far from Corner 59 & 306…

    #757137

    adorable
    Participant

    where do you live and who are you? I dont either so I prob know who you are! that would be cute

    #757138

    mytake
    Member

    Yes it would….except I’m not telling! See ya on the road!

    #757139

    adorable
    Participant

    Or at the grocery store…. can i borrow some sugar please? thank you and can you please move your car a little its blocking the driveway

    #757140

    GumBall
    Member

    aries help! i dont know what ur talking about!!!

    #757141

    deiyezooger
    Member

    Cherrybim; thanks for the link, I heard about the accident and couldn’t find info on the condition.

    #757143

    LuvMe
    Member

    adorable – I’m your co – worker? lol i was there a minute before it happened and when it did, one of the people i was with had a pic of it.

    #757144

    adorable
    Participant

    LUVME- sorry for the confusion but my coworker told me she was reading this and I thought she posted that….NO you are not my co worker! But nice to meet you anyhow !

    #757145

    LuvMe
    Member

    Adorable – Kay phew. I was wondering if I had a secret job I didn’t know about LOL

    #757146

    adorable
    Participant

    so you dont work? i dont know anyone who doesnt work…

    #757147

    LuvMe
    Member

    Nope I don’t. I assume that u do tho lol

    #757148

    oomis
    Participant

    I just saw Adorable’s post now. Are you doing better today? It is really scary to witness an accident, but B”H it is over, and you are OK. I hope the driver and/or passengers are likewise OK.

    #757149

    adorable
    Participant

    Oomis- thank you for your post. I am feeling much better about it today and just daven that such things should never happen to anyone in our nation again!

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