February 4, 2015 1:06 am at 1:06 am #614802
Six weeks ago, I was moichel my worst enemy after three years of hatred. Medical problems that my husband and I (That I didn’t know about yet) starting to clear up, and we are Baruch Hashem feeling much better.February 4, 2015 1:45 am at 1:45 am #1058204
WowFebruary 4, 2015 3:23 am at 3:23 am #1058205Rema711Member
Miriam377 it was a neis Hashem didFebruary 4, 2015 5:24 am at 5:24 am #1058206Sam2Participant
I was once Mochel my worst enemy. He responding by messing me over even more royally than before. Good times…February 4, 2015 5:43 am at 5:43 am #1058207JosephParticipant
I know many people who never had any worst enemies or even any enemies at all.February 4, 2015 6:09 am at 6:09 am #1058208gildaParticipant
There are many stories around about how people saw yeshuas when they were moichel.February 4, 2015 11:16 am at 11:16 am #1058210TheGoqParticipant
The biggest yeshua of all when you mochel is how free you feel you are no longer chained in anger to the wrongdoer, the deed that they did may be over but until you forgive the anger stays with you as a cloud over your head. Once you forgive you are saying i no longer allow you to negatively affect my life.February 4, 2015 2:45 pm at 2:45 pm #1058212SayIDidIt™Participant
Miriam377,thanks for posting this!
SiDi™February 4, 2015 4:05 pm at 4:05 pm #1058214Little FroggieParticipant
Sidi, it was you?!?February 4, 2015 6:48 pm at 6:48 pm #1058216SayIDidIt™Participant
LF, I have no clue who Miriam377 is.
SiDi™February 4, 2015 9:55 pm at 9:55 pm #1058218flatbusherParticipant
I guess I’m glad things turned around, but how does someone develop such deep hatred for another Jew?February 4, 2015 10:40 pm at 10:40 pm #1058219
I poured my heart and soul into his child and one day out of the blue he told me he did not want us to have any contact with her.February 5, 2015 12:17 am at 12:17 am #1058220
Miriam, could you do me a huge favor? I have four tehillim names written down in my siddur in school- four sweet, good, frum girls that haven’t found their zivugim, despite the fact that they’ve been looking for years.
If I post them tommorow, will you please say a perek of tehillim for them? It would mean the world to me to have a special person like you, who seems to have overcome much adversity, daven for them.
Hatzlachah!February 5, 2015 1:58 am at 1:58 am #1058221
@lg very nice of you to think of othersFebruary 5, 2015 5:01 am at 5:01 am #1058222
Very nice of you to take the time to notice that and comment. 🙂February 5, 2015 2:49 pm at 2:49 pm #1058223
Sure letakein girl.February 5, 2015 4:53 pm at 4:53 pm #1058225🐵 ⌨ GamanitParticipant
Did your enemy ask for forgiveness, or did you just decide on your own to forgive? I’m also trying to imagine what would have to take place for me to consider a fellow jew an enemy…February 5, 2015 5:01 pm at 5:01 pm #1058226
Oh yea well very nice of YOU to notice that I commented on your comment and comment on my comment about your comment ha! 😉February 5, 2015 10:16 pm at 10:16 pm #1058227
Gamanit, going into too much detail would break confidence so let me put it like this.
A child that thrives on unconditional love
A childless couple willing to take your child Shabbosos, Yomim Tovim, overnights, including 70+ hour stretches, all without notice or charge.
Treat her like their own daughter.
One day out of the blue, you call this babysitter and say No thanks and don’t call us again.
Fast forward a few years, this babysitter hates you with all her heart for what you did to her. They can’t function because this child is not around. The pain is so much to handle that you have no choice but to turn this pain to hate so you can get on with your daily life.
Medical problems are cropping up from physical to psychological. Doctors bills are mounting. Appointments are being scheduled 5 a week sometimes more sometimes less.
Then you say to yourself: You know what the hatred and anger is no longer worth it. Hashem, I am moichel these people B’leive Shalem.
Within a half hour, (it was early in the morning) one of us was on their way to the first appointment which started to settle everything down.
And then I realize, Thank you parents of this child, for giving us the most amazing gift you could ever give us. You gave a childless couple a chance at a family. We still miss her, We will always love her and when you’re ready, she still has a place in our home.February 6, 2015 1:12 am at 1:12 am #1058229
Mods, is there a reason why my post wasn’t let through?
sorry, we can’t post peoples names on a public forum without their permission.February 6, 2015 1:57 am at 1:57 am #1058230LovelymeMember
Wow!! That’s amazing!February 6, 2015 3:00 am at 3:00 am #1058231chaniewParticipant
so sad.February 6, 2015 4:08 am at 4:08 am #1058232
Wow, Miriam… You are a truly extraordinary person.
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