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    eclipse
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    If I could only choose one physical feature in a potential shidduch, if that was the “deal” – only ONE – I’d choose a warm and friendly smile, used genuinely and often.

    If I could choose only one character trait? An inner contentedness that allows and wants a spouse to succeed and be happy too.

    Do you think that exists over 40?

    In a previously married gentleman?

    If not, I would rather continue smiling and encouraging others to find their respective strengths – single.

    How do other CR members feel about this?

    No harsh comments please; I’m kinda sensitive:)

    #971455
    Toi
    Participant

    im sure you’ll find your bashert. just keep swimming.

    #971456
    ChanieE
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    I think that is beautiful! And in my experience, I think that in your age range you’re probably more likely to find these traits in someone who was previously married than in someone who never was, although there certainly are people who have not yet married who are happy and genuinely want others to be happy as well. Hatzlacha rabba!

    #971457
    eclipse
    Member

    I’m not looking too actively, but I was wondering.

    #971458
    sharp
    Member

    Beautiful attitude. Amazing strength.

    Hope you find your bashert soon.

    #971459
    Oh Shreck!
    Participant

    Eclipse,

    I think I once wrote to you before (under my previous s/n a”h) there can be nice men too, of all ages. You’ll meet up with this pure “SELFISH” guy, intent at perfecting his character, his middas hachesed, he’ll end up using you for his goal. Pure selfishness! After all most opportunities of bestowing chesed, untold times, again and again, are with one’s spouse. He’ll couple with you for that purpose, to have someone to bestow chesed, to brighten someone’s life, to cheer, to make someone close and dear happy – ??? ???? ?????.

    #971460
    the-art-of-moi
    Participant

    keep your head up, an amazing person like you is sure to marry a great guy. i believe in you and that your qualities will take you far in life. keep your head up!

    #971461
    LevAryeh
    Member

    I know someone who’s very much the man you describe, and he’s never been married. Due to the fact that there are no PMs on this website, nothing will ever come of the idea though.

    #971462
    eclipse
    Member

    Oh Shreck! That was beautiful!

    T.A.O.M. Thank you!

    #971463
    eclipse
    Member

    Lev: Saw your post after I posted…I think better someone who has some experience with kids,no? But I have sisters still single, maybe for them?

    #971464
    LevAryeh
    Member

    Could be. He’s in his low forties, but doesn’t look it. The guy is one of the sweetest, hard-working people I know. I don’t know where to go from here though.

    #971465
    eclipse
    Member

    If the Mods agree you can give them the info and I can forward my sis resume.

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