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September 10, 2017 8:33 pm at 8:33 pm #1359952anon1m0usParticipant
We all hear how dangerous the internet is and how we all should avoid it as it causes people to stray, and some get divorced.
Is the coffee room any better? It is a place where men and women shmooze and maybe the cause of lifnai evar.
Should women be excluded from this forum as it lacks tznius?
September 10, 2017 8:43 pm at 8:43 pm #1360048LubavitcherParticipantIt’s not tznuis
September 10, 2017 9:08 pm at 9:08 pm #1360062YW Moderator-29 👨💻ModeratorWho says they’re women?
September 10, 2017 9:15 pm at 9:15 pm #1360066TheGoqParticipantMaybe the women here should be typing in all caps cause lowercase letters might be too revealing.
September 10, 2017 9:40 pm at 9:40 pm #1360058GadolhadorahParticipantThe Mods seem to be doing a good job keeping us on the straight and narrow path….if you’ve ever asked for directions in EY, you probably heard some variation of “yashar, yashar”….same here
September 10, 2017 9:40 pm at 9:40 pm #1360064👑RebYidd23ParticipantThis topic has been discussed many, many times.
September 10, 2017 10:05 pm at 10:05 pm #1360086GAONParticipantWondering* why isn’t the question the other way around:
Perhaps men should stay out.
After all, men do have a coffee room in shul… 🙂September 10, 2017 11:16 pm at 11:16 pm #1360120LubavitcherParticipantLol how bout woman write normal and men write only in caps
Since they only can write in caps
Typing is a dif storySeptember 11, 2017 12:18 am at 12:18 am #1360144👑RebYidd23ParticipantCaps are beged ish.
September 11, 2017 4:56 am at 4:56 am #1360198knafaymParticipantSince you’re having difficulty with this issue. You should probably consult your LOR rather than the forum itself.
September 11, 2017 3:18 pm at 3:18 pm #1361146Lilmod UlelamaidParticipantWe all hear how dangerous the internet is and how we all should avoid it as it causes people to stray, and some get divorced.
Is the coffee room any better? It is a place where men and women shmooze and maybe the cause of lifnai evar.
Should men be excluded from this forum as it lacks tznius?
There was a typ in the op, so I edited it. You’re welcome!
September 11, 2017 3:18 pm at 3:18 pm #1361148Lilmod UlelamaidParticipant“Who says they’re women?”
Who says they’re men?
September 11, 2017 10:27 pm at 10:27 pm #1361455anon1m0usParticipantRegardless of what you think, would you be happy to see your bais medrish bochor discussing halachos or hashkofos with anonymous women( or people posing as it) or your seminary girl discussing things that took place is seminary with an unknown boy?
September 12, 2017 8:59 pm at 8:59 pm #1362457Lilmod UlelamaidParticipantno.
September 12, 2017 9:50 pm at 9:50 pm #1362471👑RebYidd23ParticipantIf there were a public stage in the town square where anyone could debate anyone, I would have no problem with that.
September 12, 2017 9:57 pm at 9:57 pm #1362477Lilmod UlelamaidParticipantclarification to my above post: I was answering the question literally and not necessarily in context. The reasons I wouldn’t want my seminary/Beis Medrash children doing the above are: 1. I wouldn’t want them online in the first place, and 2. I wouldn’t want them having online discussions with strangers.
I think the gender of the strangers would bother me way less than the fact that they are online and that they are having discussions with strangers. In terms of the gender, it would depend on many factors.
September 12, 2017 10:05 pm at 10:05 pm #1362480Lilmod UlelamaidParticipantRY -there are differences between the two which is the reason you brought that as an example.
btw, that’s generally the reason why people use this type of reasoning when trying to make a point, and it’s the reason why I generally think it’s not a good argument. If someone wants to prove that A) is okay, he will say, “B) is okay so A) must be okay” Obviously, he thinks there is a difference between A) and B), or he could have just said, “A) is okay because A) is okay.
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