I’m not sure there’s an easy answer to this dillema. Suppose the school has absolute proof that a girl is “fardurben” and has the tendency to lure other gorls into her world. Would you then feel comfortable having your daughter sit right next to this girl in class?
It’s quite possible that some of these unaccepted girls come from poor or not sufficiently “connected” families and therefore they are not accepted. In this case it’s indeed an absolute abomenation. However, do we know that this is the reason Lakewood has 6 girls not accepted in the schools? Perhaps they are not accepted for the reasons I cited above?