troll troll troll . I your asking how to get dates you do have to be very proactive and not be shy and take a back seat, go to a Shadchan, go online to frumster or syas tell your friends your looking. Maybe write a more specific question?
the key is tefillah keep davening to hashem to send you your shidduch. also dont say anything negative for a month no complaining…. always have a smile on your face.