March 28, 2011 12:58 am at 12:58 am #595961smartlittlecookieMember
saying no to a boy because hes not good looking. Does that make someone vain?March 28, 2011 1:00 am at 1:00 am #753131popa_bar_abbaParticipant
yes, horribly vain. Only men are allowed to care about looks.March 28, 2011 1:02 am at 1:02 am #753132yoyo56Member
i dont think so sometimes you may see someone on the street jewsih normal etc but bec of the way they dress/look u wouldnt get close to them why would u want to date someone who u dont like their looks i dont knwo if i would enjoy sitting at the table with them no offenseMarch 28, 2011 2:46 am at 2:46 am #753133StuffedCabbageParticipant
um personally i dont think its vain because you have to be attracted to the person….but then again if shes not a size 2 but a 6 i think its a little vain to say no to her……March 28, 2011 3:12 am at 3:12 am #753134truth be toldMember
So it only goes one way?
But I agree, one must find their spouse appealing, though guys and girls are drawn by different things).March 28, 2011 3:25 am at 3:25 am #753135aries2756Participant
The problem with getting caught up in the “looks” issue is that everyone has a different opinion of what good looking is. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone has a right to get married even someone who is not so good looking. But what you might overlook when “looks” are at the top of your list is that you might be passing up the most wonderful person who’s midos far outshine his looks and maybe when you get to know him you will find his charm to be very appealing and it makes him quite handsome after all. Would you rather have a handsome man that treats you like his servant or a not such a good looking guy that treats you like a queen. Sometimes that is something worth considering.March 28, 2011 5:43 am at 5:43 am #753136cshapiroMember
i agree with popa 100%!!!
all jokes aside, wouldnt you want someone to judge u by more than just ur looks? ‘do unto others as you would have them do unto you’
rememeber looks fade…so if his hair is thinning now, he will be completely bald in like five years 🙂 just something to think about!!March 28, 2011 10:30 am at 10:30 am #753137truth be toldMember
Anyone agree or disagree?
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