March 15, 2017 1:38 am at 1:38 am #619479HappygirlygirlMember
Hi people of the cr!! So basically my wedding is in a few days and I was wondering if anyone has any advice on how to calm myself and what I should expect and just how to deal with all the stress… and any other tips lemme know asap please. Thank uMarch 15, 2017 1:46 am at 1:46 am #1228659yeshivishe kupParticipant
Just chill. And that’s it.
You only have 1 day so make the most of it and don’t freak out.March 15, 2017 1:47 am at 1:47 am #1228660JosephParticipant
Mazal Tov!March 15, 2017 2:02 am at 2:02 am #1228661Lilmod UlelamaidParticipant
Mazel Tov! That is great news!March 15, 2017 2:04 am at 2:04 am #1228662LightbriteParticipant
Yay Mazal TOV Happy Girly Girl 🙂 🙂 🙂March 15, 2017 2:07 am at 2:07 am #1228663yytzParticipant
Mazel tov! There is a custom to recite the entire book of Tehillim on your wedding day, so reciting it in the few days before would also seem to be a good idea.
In addition, some have the practice (not just before weddings — all the time) of constantly reciting certain pesukim having to do with bitachon (such as Tehillim 84:12, the recitation of which is mentioned in the Yerushalmi (Berachos 5:1).)March 15, 2017 2:21 am at 2:21 am #1228664rebshidduchParticipant
Mazel Tov. Just relax.March 15, 2017 2:25 am at 2:25 am #1228665TheGoqParticipant
Mazal Tov! try not to stress let your parents and siblings deal with any minor issues that might arise with seating and such.March 15, 2017 3:27 am at 3:27 am #1228666MRS PLONYParticipant
Mazel Tov! If you stress, then remind yourself ‘Gam zeh Ya’avor’ This too, shall pass. The wedding only lasts a few hours, but you should be blessed to share with your chasan a marriage that will last for many, many, many years.March 15, 2017 4:43 am at 4:43 am #1228667yungermanSParticipant
take your most important & happiest day in your life “one hour at a time, step by step” through the wedding
don’t wait until the last minute to be prepared & ready
Mazel tovMarch 15, 2017 5:29 am at 5:29 am #1228668YesOrNoParticipant
Veyizku Livnos Bayis Ne’eman Beyisroel!!!!March 15, 2017 11:39 am at 11:39 am #1228669WolfishMusingsParticipant
The key is to just have a good day. Remember that it’s only one day in a long, long marriage — yes, it’s an important day, but when it comes down to it, it’s just one day. It’s how you spend the rest of the days that is far more important than what happens on your wedding day.
The WolfMarch 15, 2017 1:15 pm at 1:15 pm #1228670MenoParticipant
Just remember that if anything doesn’t go as planned, it will probably make a great story in a few years.
Seriously, who wants to think back at their wedding after 20 years and say, “It was so nice, everything went exactly as planned, it was straight out of a fairy tale”?
Also let everyone else take care of all the planning. No one should be pressuring you to take care of that stuff.March 15, 2017 4:52 pm at 4:52 pm #1228671misteryudiParticipant
Consider that your wedding day is not actually for you at all. It’s for your families, friends, and all the invited guests. So they can dress up, eat a fancy meal, smile at some cameras, and be seen smiling at some cameras.
For you, it’s just a day you need to get through to reach your real purpose, your goal, your happily ever after: Which is BEING married, and living the rest of your life with someone you love.March 17, 2017 6:06 pm at 6:06 pm #1237972rebshidduchParticipant
How was your wedding?
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