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Hi people of the cr!! So basically my wedding is in a few days and I was wondering if anyone has any advice on how to calm myself and what I should expect and just how to deal with all the stress… and any other tips lemme know asap please. Thank u
Just chill. And that’s it.
You only have 1 day so make the most of it and don’t freak out.
Mazal Tov!
Mazel Tov! That is great news!
Yay Mazal TOV Happy Girly Girl 🙂 🙂 🙂
Mazel tov! There is a custom to recite the entire book of Tehillim on your wedding day, so reciting it in the few days before would also seem to be a good idea.
In addition, some have the practice (not just before weddings — all the time) of constantly reciting certain pesukim having to do with bitachon (such as Tehillim 84:12, the recitation of which is mentioned in the Yerushalmi (Berachos 5:1).)
Mazel Tov. Just relax.
Mazal Tov! try not to stress let your parents and siblings deal with any minor issues that might arise with seating and such.
Mazel Tov! If you stress, then remind yourself ‘Gam zeh Ya’avor’ This too, shall pass. The wedding only lasts a few hours, but you should be blessed to share with your chasan a marriage that will last for many, many, many years.
take your most important & happiest day in your life “one hour at a time, step by step” through the wedding
don’t wait until the last minute to be prepared & ready
Mazel tov
Mazal Tov!
Veyizku Livnos Bayis Ne’eman Beyisroel!!!!
Mazal Tov!
The key is to just have a good day. Remember that it’s only one day in a long, long marriage — yes, it’s an important day, but when it comes down to it, it’s just one day. It’s how you spend the rest of the days that is far more important than what happens on your wedding day.
The Wolf
Just remember that if anything doesn’t go as planned, it will probably make a great story in a few years.
Seriously, who wants to think back at their wedding after 20 years and say, “It was so nice, everything went exactly as planned, it was straight out of a fairy tale”?
Also let everyone else take care of all the planning. No one should be pressuring you to take care of that stuff.
Consider that your wedding day is not actually for you at all. It’s for your families, friends, and all the invited guests. So they can dress up, eat a fancy meal, smile at some cameras, and be seen smiling at some cameras.
For you, it’s just a day you need to get through to reach your real purpose, your goal, your happily ever after: Which is BEING married, and living the rest of your life with someone you love.
How was your wedding?
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