There is a new sefer being distributed for free in many shuls ( in yiddish) called “Der Veg Tzi Der Geilah”. It is very worthwhile to spend a few minutes reading it. It is very well written and is very inspirational
I saw it in Boro Park
Everyone on these forums should such a Sefer.
Shmira halashon is very important unless you want to knock somebody not in your own group. Then loshon hora becomes the biggest mitzva, and you are a big tzaddik. The bigger the fight you make, the bigger the tzaddik. The RBSH is very proud of you.