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    ShalomToYou
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    Does anyone still do it?

    I stopped years ago. I felt ridiculous doing it. All the girls I asked hurried to say how it’s fine and they don’t need it but maybe they were to embarrassed to speak their mind. So girls here’s your chance to tell the guys what you think of the practice.

    Again I think it’s ridiculous but I’m not married. Maybe that’s why

    #945565

    Vogue
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    I would love it if the guy opened the car door for me. Its like a chauffeur!

    #945566

    luv2Bjewish
    Member

    it is the accepted thing to do nowadays.

    #945567

    Imaofthree
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    My husband still opens doors for me. It’s a very gentleman thing to do.

    #945568

    Seriously, are we gonna go through this again? Well, then we may as well get it over with.

    All those who open the door for their dates are immoral, prust, and slave to gentile mentality. All those who don’t are backwards, rude, smelly, and not suitable for marriage.

    Now, let everybody elaborate on that theme for three pages, a week and a half, or the closing of the topic; whichever comes first.

    #945569

    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    All those who open the door for their dates are immoral, prust, and slave to gentile mentality. All those who don’t are backwards, rude, smelly, and not suitable for marriage.

    I guess you’re in favor of b’shos.

    #945570

    “all those who don’t are backwards, rude, smelly and not suitable for marriage.” ( i dont know how to make it italic).

    Daas Yochid are you saying that if u were a female ( im assuming ur male) and the boy didnt open the door then you would call off the shidduch?

    #945571

    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    NSH, I didn’t express any opinion on the matter.

    You are taking my words entirely out of context.

    #945572

    Torah613Torah
    Participant

    The Kanoi Next Door: +10

    #945573

    I do it but only because I was told to lol

    #945574

    superstar
    Member

    If i tried opening the door and so did someone else it would be woops not shomer negiah. So i think it’s unecesary. But if you want to i guess you could. Maybe we should create a car where the doors open automatically. Oh wait we have that.

    #945575

    TheGoq
    Participant

    I pity the Dor that doesnt have the manners to open the door.

    #945576

    pou_bear
    Member

    The worst is when the door is opened for the girl the first three dates and after that all “manners” dwindle down.

    #945577

    2good2btrue
    Participant

    The guy should open the door on the first date and then on the second date as their walking towards the car the girl should tell the guy he doesn’t have to anymore. Then you know he has good manners and nobody feels like the fool.

    #945578

    crndy
    Member

    I often open the door for him. It doesn’t always have to be the other way. Manners is a two-way street.

    #945579

    Torah613Torah
    Participant

    Everyone does it on a first date. After that practicality slowly starts to take over.

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