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December 21, 2011 2:03 am at 2:03 am #601219popa_bar_abbaParticipant
Tonight, I davened maariv standing nowhere near a siddur. And without checking first to make sure I could say al hanissim. I could.
December 21, 2011 2:13 am at 2:13 am #858366HaLeiViParticipantYeah, but you knew you can whip out your BB and go to iDaven.
December 21, 2011 2:27 am at 2:27 am #858367popa_bar_abbaParticipantI don’t have internet on my phone. (It is possible I have it, but I don’t have a data plan, and have never used it.)
December 21, 2011 2:32 am at 2:32 am #858368yitayningwutParticipantYeah but half the time instead of concentrating on what you were saying you were thinking, “I can do this, I can do this!”
I know, because I did it too.
December 21, 2011 2:39 am at 2:39 am #858369Sam2ParticipantYeah, but you knew that if you messed it up or forgot it you were still Yotzei Shmoneh Esrei. I was less brave but more stupid. I went over it to myself (OC Siman 89, by the way, IIRC), made a mistake, still recognized that I knew it, and said it without a Siddur nearby anyway.
December 21, 2011 2:44 am at 2:44 am #858371gefenParticipantAren’t you supposed to daven WITH a siddur? that’s what we always learned.
December 21, 2011 3:20 am at 3:20 am #858372moishyParticipantYeah, doesn’t the mishna berurah say the first time you say al hanisim you should say it looking inside a siddur??
December 21, 2011 3:31 am at 3:31 am #858373popa_bar_abbaParticipantYeah, doesn’t the mishna berurah say the first time you say al hanisim you should say it looking inside a siddur??
I don’t know. But I’m pretty sure it isn’t the first time I said it. I must have said it a few years ago. I wouldn’t know it by heart otherwise.
December 21, 2011 4:12 am at 4:12 am #858374always runs with scissors fastParticipantooooh, popa, I see you like to live on the edge. That story gives me shivers. How could you???
Well…I can one up you. I drink milk past the expiry date. How’s that?
December 21, 2011 4:17 am at 4:17 am #858375popa_bar_abbaParticipantI don’t even drink milk before the expiration date.
December 21, 2011 4:29 am at 4:29 am #858376Sam2ParticipantPBA: You hold like Rav Schachter?
December 21, 2011 4:37 am at 4:37 am #858377sem graduateMemberPopa, I believe the halacha is that you are supposed to use a siddur/machzor/text for something that you did not say in the last 30 days. That is why we use a machzor for kiddush on yom tov – for sure the first night. And that is why the first time you say al hanisim should also be with a siddur.
December 21, 2011 4:37 am at 4:37 am #858378popa_bar_abbaParticipant??
December 21, 2011 4:38 am at 4:38 am #858379popa_bar_abbaParticipantrealisraeli: hmm. I didn’t know that. Can you throw me a cite?
December 21, 2011 4:43 am at 4:43 am #858380Sam2ParticipantPBA: It’s the Siman I quoted earlier. I think it’s 89 but I could be off.
December 21, 2011 4:48 am at 4:48 am #858381popa_bar_abbaParticipant89 is about what you are allowed to do before davening.
December 21, 2011 4:55 am at 4:55 am #858382Sam2ParticipantIt’s 100 with the Nosei Keilim there.
December 21, 2011 4:59 am at 4:59 am #858383popa_bar_abbaParticipantIt’s Siman 100 (I have the bar ilan).
And yep, it does say that. Oh well.
December 21, 2011 5:01 am at 5:01 am #858384popa_bar_abbaParticipantSo mistama I’m relying on this:
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December 21, 2011 8:06 pm at 8:06 pm #858386miritchkaMemberPopa_bar_abba: Gonna be dan l’kaf zechus and say that just like the speeches of presidents have modernized from paper to teleprompter, i’m gonna go out on a limb and say that you did too!
December 21, 2011 8:13 pm at 8:13 pm #858387☕ DaasYochid ☕Participantis it a sort of new “cool” thing to daven without a siddur? I have never heard of that. Maybe its like being cool and showing off?
Some people concentrate better with their eyes closed.
December 21, 2011 8:46 pm at 8:46 pm #858390BTGuyParticipantHi DassYochid.
I am no expert, and I may be wrong, but I would think the concentration may be more on remembering the words than concentrating on the feeling and thoughts behind them. How can one really do all three successfully (remembering correct words, corresponding thoughts, and increasing intensity of feeling)?
It seems in all cases, and I may be wrong, of making brachos, I have always read it is better to read them even if one knows them inside and out. I have never read where it is preferable to eventually recite by memory.
Is it a merit to strive to daven without a siddur?
December 21, 2011 10:31 pm at 10:31 pm #858392✡onegoal™ParticipantPopa- I just did it. It’s overrated.
December 21, 2011 11:40 pm at 11:40 pm #858393littleappleMemberBTG: merit to daven w/o siddur?
The thing is to do what it takes to daven like your standing in front of The One and Only Hashem. I believe halacha advises eyes closed or down and siddur as a second alternative if the words won’t come otherwise.
December 22, 2011 12:15 am at 12:15 am #858394popa_bar_abbaParticipantPopa- I just did it. It’s overrated.
You can’t have just done it. You had to to it last night, or it doesn’t count.
December 22, 2011 12:40 am at 12:40 am #858395☕ DaasYochid ☕ParticipantIs it a merit to strive to daven without a siddur?
Not that I know of. Everyone should do what works best for them.
December 22, 2011 1:34 am at 1:34 am #858396✡onegoal™ParticipantPopa- Sorry, I didn’t realize it didn’t count. (I still think it’s overrated)
December 22, 2011 3:12 am at 3:12 am #858397ItcheSrulikMemberPopa: I did it too. Do you remember whether you said v’achar kein or v’achrei chein?
always runs with scissors fast: No, it’s a halacha brought in RaMBa”M and shulchan aruch. RaMBaM recommends looking over the special prayers before yomtov so you can say them. The mechaber, writing after printing gives looking at a siddur as a second option in general.
December 22, 2011 5:14 am at 5:14 am #858398Bar ShattyaMemberI did similar to popa. the guy next to me had a siddur but what could i do? thats where he was.
Anyhow, today during supper i told someone the “forgetting al hanissim harachaman” so he wouldnt have to look it up in a bencher, then just for kicks also said the “forgetting rtzei bracha” so you might think i’m just so good at forgetting things so I added the birchas zimun for shave brachos (something I’ve never said for real.
December 22, 2011 5:19 am at 5:19 am #858399BSDMember“And without checking first to make sure I could say al hanissim. I could.”
Impressive. What about vi’al haporkun?
December 22, 2011 5:43 am at 5:43 am #858400Sam2ParticipantItche: Don’t you “V’achar Kein” as opposed to “V’achar Kach”? It has to be a Kaf to start the word.
December 22, 2011 6:14 am at 6:14 am #858401popa_bar_abbaParticipantI said v’achar kein. That was how it was in whichever siddur I used as a kid, apparently.
You know, if y’all would have davened when you were a kid, you’d know it all by heart also.
I don’t ever even take a siddur. Even on shabbos. The only time I take a siddur is for Mon-thu tachanun. And I take it before tachanun and put it back after.
Shabbos is easy. The first y’kum purkan is for the rabbis, so you end the words with ???, which means “them.” The second one is for the community, so you end the word with ??? which means “you.” Nothin’ to it. You know you are messing up on yontiff if you pause to think about if you should say ?? ?? or ??.
One of my brothers can do barchi nafshi. I can’t. I know most of it by heart, but I don’t always know what the next paragraph is.
December 22, 2011 8:15 am at 8:15 am #858402Sam2ParticipantPBA: You have Shabbos Pesukei D’zimra down? I still need a Siddur for that sometimes. And what about B’rich Shmeh? What about Rosh Hashanah Mussaf? Do you use a Siddur for that (I would be duly impressed if you know that one by heart)? Also, if you said V’yiten Lecha I guarantee you that you would pull out a Siddur every Motzai Shabbos (what about Kiddush Levana, by the way).
December 22, 2011 1:12 pm at 1:12 pm #8584032scentsParticipantInteresting, V’al Hanisim you have no problem saying by heart, although you do not say it from year to year.
However Tachnun which is said twice each week you take a siddur.
December 22, 2011 3:36 pm at 3:36 pm #858404popa_bar_abbaParticipantYou have Shabbos Pesukei D’zimra down?
Uhhh. Let’s just say I don’t need a siddur for the parts I come early enough to say. I think I actually know the mizmorim by heart, but sometimes need a prompt for which one is next.
And what about B’rich Shmeh?
I’ve known that since I was like 10.
What about Rosh Hashanah Mussaf?
No. But I know maariv, shachris, mincha.
Also, if you said V’yiten Lecha I guarantee you that you would pull out a Siddur every Motzai Shabbos
I would know it. I’ve read it a time or two, it doesn’t seem very complicated.
(what about Kiddush Levana, by the way).
Kiddush levana is the best example. It is so much easier not to have to hock around getting the card, and then taking it back inside. I’ve been saying that by heart for years.
Interesting, V’al Hanisim you have no problem saying by heart, although you do not say it from year to year.
However Tachnun which is said twice each week you take a siddur.
Certain things are harder than others. Tachanun is very confusing, since it is very repetitive, and shares similar prompts with other parts of davening. You can start in tachanun and end up saying psukei dzimra, or benching, or tashlich, or shiluach haken.
You don’t want to absentmindedly start shooing imaginary birds during tachanun.
December 22, 2011 4:11 pm at 4:11 pm #858405midwesternerParticipantI live about a 16 minute walk from the place I daven at Shabbos morning. I’ve found that if I walk out the door with Asher nasan lasechvi vina, I get to the shul at Az Yashir. If I’m late, I will sometimes skip the Halleluka halleu es Shem Hashem (too confusing with Hallel Hagadol), then Hallel hagadol (always get thrown off with 26 times ki l’olam chasdo) and Ranenu Tzadikim (too interchangable with Yehi ch’vod). (Can you tell that I daven Ashkenaz?) The rest goes smooth without any trouble. With proper concentration I sometimes can do those as well. I make up the missing parts when I have a siddur, right before Nishmas, and all is well.
December 22, 2011 4:19 pm at 4:19 pm #858406popa_bar_abbaParticipantI should mention. One of the surest ways to make people hate you, is to correct the baal korei while you have an aliya.
December 22, 2011 4:33 pm at 4:33 pm #858407✡onegoal™ParticipantJust a random story. A while back my brother was davening for the amud on shabbos morning and managed to get up to ashrei without anybody noticing he was davening weekday psukei dzimra.
December 22, 2011 4:46 pm at 4:46 pm #858408midwesternerParticipantPopa: You know where to find me. I challenge you!! (I have done this myself to others and gotten ‘the look’! Not very often, though. My far too large ego does not allow me to tolerate listening to very many others.)
Onegoal: Very few people pay attention to Shabbos morning pesukei dezimra. Ther are many places where there is not even a shatz up there at all. If davening starts at, let’s say 8:00, that just means that someone goes up at 8:30 and says Shochein Ad.
December 22, 2011 4:54 pm at 4:54 pm #858409✡onegoal™Participantmidwesterner- I haer you, but at least one person in the entire shul (which only has about 11 congregants) should notice.
December 22, 2011 5:02 pm at 5:02 pm #858410Sam2ParticipantPBA: Any Ba’al Korei who makes a correctable mistake during Channukah Leining deserves it anyway, unless you’re just talking in general and that didn’t happen today.
December 22, 2011 5:07 pm at 5:07 pm #858411popa_bar_abbaParticipantmidwesterner: but this week is an out shabbos, no?
Sam: it wasn’t today. It happened on shabbos veyeitzei, and also on shabbos vayishlach.
December 22, 2011 5:14 pm at 5:14 pm #858412✡onegoal™Participantpopa- This shabbos is definitely not a out shabbos, more like an in shabbos. (not really but it’s one of the highlights of the year so everyone stays)
December 22, 2011 5:23 pm at 5:23 pm #858413popa_bar_abbaParticipantWhy does everyone stay shabbos chanuka?
December 22, 2011 5:35 pm at 5:35 pm #858414✡onegoal™ParticipantMy brother (who is there) told me the two highlights of the year are chanukah and purim. Why? I don’t know. It’s so good in fact that my last shabbos here he is staying there.
December 22, 2011 5:43 pm at 5:43 pm #858415midwesternerParticipantMy place likes to stay in SHabbos Chanuka. Chanuka is a celebration of conquering the yavanim who were anti limud Hatorah and listening to chazal. Kisvu lachem al Keren hashor etc and all the rest. We have a big melave malka, and bnai Torah from around the cournty who have an off Shabbos come to our event. Guest speaker is scheduled to be the rosh kollel of the newest kollel in the neighborhood, RYR of KOT.
And I never get an off Shabbos anyway. Even if the guys would be away, I’d still be working. Refer to my previous comment about my intolerance of most other baalei kriah. (Although I’d be curious to hear what The Wolf sounds like.)
December 22, 2011 6:55 pm at 6:55 pm #858416nitpickerParticipantTO poppa
I have seen this many times and have been on both sides of it myself at times. I don’t know where the hate comes in.
Haven’t seen that and I am shocked.
December 22, 2011 8:17 pm at 8:17 pm #858417popa_bar_abbaParticipantnitpicker: Can you rephrase that? I think I lost you.
December 22, 2011 8:59 pm at 8:59 pm #858418nitpickerParticipantOK.
sorry if i wasnt clear.
again, I have seen the oleh correct the baal koreh many times.
I myself have been in both position. (served as corrector or correctee).
I haven’t seen any hate caused by this event. I am shocked that you have and think it normal. I have seen annoyance, especially if the corrector is wrong (or the baal koreh thinks he is wrong).
but hate?!
December 22, 2011 9:02 pm at 9:02 pm #858419popa_bar_abbaParticipantThat’s nice to hear.
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