September 6, 2012 3:36 am at 3:36 am #604792todahrabbaParticipant
I don’t know how this happened but my friend just went out with someone on a first date who kept her in the car for all 3 hours and he didn’t say a word. This should never happen. EVER….September 6, 2012 3:39 am at 3:39 am #895209sheinMember
How does this PSA help anyone?September 6, 2012 3:40 am at 3:40 am #895210CuriosityParticipant
Soooo… You’re saying there’s probably not going to be a 2nd date?September 6, 2012 3:58 am at 3:58 am #895211WIYMember
That is seriously messed up! I hope the Shadchan gives the boy a sharp talking to!September 6, 2012 4:03 am at 4:03 am #895212
He sounds like a frugal boy, reserved too.September 6, 2012 4:22 am at 4:22 am #895213vochindikMember
He was testing he fortitude to see if she could hold out under such trying circumstances . Unfortunately she didn’t pass the test, so he has declined to take her out on a second date.September 6, 2012 5:00 am at 5:00 am #895214aurora77Participant
The Goq, you are a riot! So funny 🙂September 6, 2012 6:47 am at 6:47 am #895215todahrabbaParticipant
It gets better: he didn’t know where to go and asked her where he should go. He kept getting lost and turned the music up and down on z100 and didn’t even apologize. This guy is 28!September 6, 2012 12:37 pm at 12:37 pm #895216frummy in the tummyParticipant
vochindik – No, no, no, you got it all wrong. He’s actually a CR mod, and wanted to see if any of her friends would talk about it in the CR, and THAT’S why she failed the test.September 6, 2012 12:38 pm at 12:38 pm #895217gregaaronMember
He was testing he fortitude to see if she could hold out under such trying circumstances . Unfortunately she didn’t pass the test, so he has declined to take her out on a second date.
Lucky her.September 6, 2012 12:41 pm at 12:41 pm #895218
ty aurora!September 6, 2012 3:31 pm at 3:31 pm #895219GeshmakManParticipant
Why is this being discussed publicly? especially a week before Rosh HaShana? So that we can all get a good laugh at someone that appears to have a social disorder?
What if the guy is reading this post?
Since when did this CR become Facebook with everyone just thinking aloud w/o regards for Halacha, feelings, any Yiddishkeit?September 6, 2012 4:12 pm at 4:12 pm #895220HealthParticipant
todahrabba -“I don’t know how this happened but my friend just went out with someone on a first date who kept her in the car for all 3 hours and he didn’t say a word. This should never happen. EVER….”
Welcome to Adulthood. Things do happen in life that aren’t always in our control.
First of all, I don’t understand what you’re angry about -it supposedly happened to your friend?
Second of all, if it happened to you, while I understand it’s some relief to come to a public forum and let off steam – the public isn’t who your anger should be directed at.
Why did the Shadchan set you up with such a guy? Where did you get the info from about him? Did your family and friends not do the proper research? I hope your coming here to let off steam is Not in place of asking these people these hard questions!September 6, 2012 5:15 pm at 5:15 pm #895221sing12Member
todahrabba: u said in the first post that he didn’t say a word. then later on u said he asked her were to go. so it sounds to me like this was exaggerated and he did talk, but was more of a reserved guy….not used to making convo.
obviously this is not an excuse to not apologizeSeptember 6, 2012 7:44 pm at 7:44 pm #895222aurora77Participant
I was thinking about what GeshmakMan said. I did not mean to have a laugh at someone else’s expense or put anyone down. I am sorry for joking about it. I am trying to be more mindful of any lashon hora on my part. I apologize.September 6, 2012 7:46 pm at 7:46 pm #895223
Lets give the boy a break he may have been a first time dater, he may have social awkwardness or something similar cut him some slack.
Btw i once threw up on a date from nervousness it was embarrassing but this things happen.September 6, 2012 8:29 pm at 8:29 pm #895224oomisParticipant
He was testing he fortitude to see if she could hold out under such trying circumstances .”
Sounds like it was her intestinal fortitude he was testing…
OK, I could not resist that.
Let’s not poke fun, the fellow must have been extremely nervous or a little socially awkward; it’s not a crime against humanity. I would however, speak to the shadchan and apprise him/her of the reason why your friend will not go out again with him.September 7, 2012 12:11 am at 12:11 am #895225YW Moderator-42Moderator
It was probly a talmid of the joseph camp who is very makpid on al tarbeh sicha im haisha, b’ishto amru, kal v’chomer b’shiducho.September 7, 2012 12:31 am at 12:31 am #895226☕️coffee addictParticipant
thats what happens when a guy goes out with a friend of a troll
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