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    todahrabba
    Participant

    I don’t know how this happened but my friend just went out with someone on a first date who kept her in the car for all 3 hours and he didn’t say a word. This should never happen. EVER….

    #895209

    shein
    Member

    How does this PSA help anyone?

    #895210

    Curiosity
    Participant

    Soooo… You’re saying there’s probably not going to be a 2nd date?

    #895211

    WIY
    Member

    That is seriously messed up! I hope the Shadchan gives the boy a sharp talking to!

    #895212

    TheGoq
    Participant

    He sounds like a frugal boy, reserved too.

    #895213

    vochindik
    Member

    He was testing he fortitude to see if she could hold out under such trying circumstances . Unfortunately she didn’t pass the test, so he has declined to take her out on a second date.

    #895214

    aurora77
    Participant

    The Goq, you are a riot! So funny 🙂

    #895215

    todahrabba
    Participant

    It gets better: he didn’t know where to go and asked her where he should go. He kept getting lost and turned the music up and down on z100 and didn’t even apologize. This guy is 28!

    #895216

    frummy in the tummy
    Participant

    vochindik – No, no, no, you got it all wrong. He’s actually a CR mod, and wanted to see if any of her friends would talk about it in the CR, and THAT’S why she failed the test.

    #895217

    gregaaron
    Member

    He was testing he fortitude to see if she could hold out under such trying circumstances . Unfortunately she didn’t pass the test, so he has declined to take her out on a second date.

    Lucky her.

    #895218

    TheGoq
    Participant

    ty aurora!

    #895219

    GeshmakMan
    Participant

    Why is this being discussed publicly? especially a week before Rosh HaShana? So that we can all get a good laugh at someone that appears to have a social disorder?

    What if the guy is reading this post?

    Since when did this CR become Facebook with everyone just thinking aloud w/o regards for Halacha, feelings, any Yiddishkeit?

    #895220

    Health
    Participant

    todahrabba -“I don’t know how this happened but my friend just went out with someone on a first date who kept her in the car for all 3 hours and he didn’t say a word. This should never happen. EVER….”

    Welcome to Adulthood. Things do happen in life that aren’t always in our control.

    First of all, I don’t understand what you’re angry about -it supposedly happened to your friend?

    Second of all, if it happened to you, while I understand it’s some relief to come to a public forum and let off steam – the public isn’t who your anger should be directed at.

    Why did the Shadchan set you up with such a guy? Where did you get the info from about him? Did your family and friends not do the proper research? I hope your coming here to let off steam is Not in place of asking these people these hard questions!

    #895221

    sing12
    Member

    todahrabba: u said in the first post that he didn’t say a word. then later on u said he asked her were to go. so it sounds to me like this was exaggerated and he did talk, but was more of a reserved guy….not used to making convo.

    obviously this is not an excuse to not apologize

    #895222

    aurora77
    Participant

    I was thinking about what GeshmakMan said. I did not mean to have a laugh at someone else’s expense or put anyone down. I am sorry for joking about it. I am trying to be more mindful of any lashon hora on my part. I apologize.

    #895223

    TheGoq
    Participant

    Lets give the boy a break he may have been a first time dater, he may have social awkwardness or something similar cut him some slack.

    Btw i once threw up on a date from nervousness it was embarrassing but this things happen.

    #895224

    oomis
    Participant

    He was testing he fortitude to see if she could hold out under such trying circumstances .”

    Sounds like it was her intestinal fortitude he was testing…

    OK, I could not resist that.

    Let’s not poke fun, the fellow must have been extremely nervous or a little socially awkward; it’s not a crime against humanity. I would however, speak to the shadchan and apprise him/her of the reason why your friend will not go out again with him.

    #895225

    YW Moderator-42
    Moderator

    It was probly a talmid of the joseph camp who is very makpid on al tarbeh sicha im haisha, b’ishto amru, kal v’chomer b’shiducho.

    #895226

    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    well

    thats what happens when a guy goes out with a friend of a troll

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