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My shul has an immense library of sfarim. The shul itself is very, very large–there are at least 11 different minyanim on Shabbos, each in its own room, with at least 100 people in each minyan.
One of my pet peeves is that the majority of people don’t put back their sfarim, or their siddurim for that matter. Not only does it leave an immense mess and leave the job of putting back the sfarim to some random goyim that work there, but it can also make finding a sefer impossible and incredibly frustrating. It’s mamash a nisayon when all I want to do is sit and learn for a half-hour or an hour and I spend 10 minutes looking for a Sefer because someone left it on a table in another room instead of putting it back on–or even near–the shelf they took it from.
How can this be changed? Is there any way to get an enormous shul to work on this? Anyone know of any precedents?Hang signs all over the walls imploring people to return Seforim to their correct shelf, immediately after use.
> How can this be changed?
a Rav or an older respected person should mention this in his speech.
Number bookshelves and attach notes to some seforim on which bookshelf they live.
Also, if you are learning a specific sefer and it is regularly misplaced, put it somewhere hard to find đ Either the other person does not need it much and will take another one, or will spend some time looking and hopefully will understand the problem.
Not for shabbos – you can use RFID.That’s part of the job of the Shammos. We pay him to put back sfarim left out by inconsiderate people as well as to go through the shelves in the course of the week and put things in order.
Some day schools are now requiring X hours of community service, just as public schools do. Perfect assignment for adolescent boys to fulfil the requirements.Each sefer should have a label to make it easy to know where it belongs and thereby be able to place it back to the proper location.
In my shul we have someone that took it upon himself to put away the sefarim and heâs getting tremendous schar for it
You canât change other people
Perhaps the people who run the place want it this way.
If you have some clout in this shul, than here is what I would advise.
Before Maariv at the end of Shabbos, take all the Seforim that are around – especially siddurim – that were not put back and stack them all in an out of the way corner. It will be frustrating for them, and an easier clean up for you.
Keep it up for a month, if nothing changes switch to before Mincha and stack the Bimah to the ceiling.
You can force people to realize that they are not entitled to a shul being set up for them. They can bankroll the entire budget, and it still makes no difference. Our shuls are built on shared community. If the community has to present you with your desired shul experience, do Hashem a favor and stay home. Do not make Him feel disinvited from the one place on Earth He still desires to go.
Some schools are now requiring X hours of community service, just as public schools do. Perfect assignment for adolescent boys to fulfil the requirements.
Why an assignment for “adolescent boys”. After the Rav firmly makes the point several times about returning seforim to the bikhershanks rather than leaving then randomly on the shtenders and tables, the chronic offenders should be tasked with replacing the books for a week or two or invited to find a new shul to daven.
Has anyone heard of a shul that banned a frum Yid from shul at all, let alone for such a petty infraction?!?
Dear Gadol,
Okay. I just object to telling people they are not invited to a shul.
Dear Ujm,
Yes. Sadly for even more petty infractions.
Every Shul has this problem. Signs hardly help. Chinuch does.
I’m my Shul, the Gabbay sometimes announces a request that everyone take a few minutes to pack away the Sefarim. And we all do.
@gadolhardorah
Why an assignment for adolescent boys. My comment was in reference to those required to perform x hours of community service by their schools, not adolescent boys in general.As for asking noncompliant sfarim users to daven elsewhere………………….
I come from OOT. People pay membership dues to belong to their shuls, that why I mentioned it being part of what the shammos is paid to do. The OP wrote of a shul large enough to have 1100 men davening in Shabbos in 11 minyanim in separate rooms. This sounds like a large enough institution to have paid employees…..or is it 1100 men who enjoy the heat, lights, furniture sfarim paid for by others?On a bright side of this serious problem, there is something about serendipity of reading a sefer you find on the table! I sometimes leave seforim that are under-read by the tzibur (usually, mussar and all bein adam l’havero) and then count number of people who peruse the book that they will never open it otherwise. The book with the most catchy title that attracted a lot of random users both here and in my father’s O’H shul was a small pamphet called “Lying for Truth”. Seems like everyone was interested in what heterim are available, but ended reading it more learned but slightly disappointed (not too many are).
UJM: These are not “petty” infractions. Its starts with selfishly leaving seforim spread around the beis medrash, then the emboldened perp ignores the pleas of the Rav to do tshuvah and engage in a week or two of “community service” and soon escalates to challenging leadership of the kiddush club and openly schmoozing with a fellow disruptor during the d’rashah. You have to stop this madness in the beginning before it spirals out of control.
@Gadol
doesn’t sound like there is a drasha from the shul Rav when there are 11 separate minyanim in 11 separate rooms each with 100 participantsWe need to put up flashy Kupat Ha’ir style signs about the great Segulah of putting away your Sefer.
Hire undercover agents to make a big deal about having put away their Sefer.
Alternatively, evolve into the shul of the future in a yiddeshe metaverse, get rid of the seforim (properly), install a high speed wireless connection with hot-spots in each of the 11 rooms and create a virtual library with all the most popular seforim available on the new “Shtenderextender.Com” App (download on Apple Store). For davening on shabbosim, they will have new Apple shabbosdik virtual reality eyeglass where in lieu of siddurim, the tfillos appear before your eyes and the text moves with your eye motions. (Note: Currently available only in nusach Sfard)
YWN, it is hard to change yourself, but it is almost impossible to change others. So, start with an “easier” task:
– learn the next week parsha and the next masechet for daf yomi.
– have an alternative sefer that you can learn when you can’t find the current one. Something that is not likely to attract attention: uktzin, halakhos emes vesheker, humros in bein Adam l’havero, yiddish edition of Artscroll.
– bring your own sefer
– learn mishnah by heart like in good old times
– just actually daven.Hang up the letter from the steipler call it a maisah rishus to not put back Sefarim
Have a check-out system like bottle deposits:
you take a book, put a dollar. you return a book, take a dollar.
if someone does not care and leaves a book, someone else can put it back and take a dollar.Use tokens on shabbos. Use same tokens for aliyot. You run out of tokens, no aliyot.
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