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why is it so easy for boys who have ‘turned’ good to get married, but for girls who have ‘turned’ good its hard?
it could be that since there are so many more girls then boys the girls have to mevater more often on these things while the boys are more picky
in general though i think girls are more readily mevater then boys
While its no excuse, I think there is more tolerance to bad boys becuase its in the nature of men to wander, whereas by nature girls are good, so for a girl to go south, its a bit more shocking.
Like I said, no excuse, as both returnees should be given the clean start they worked towards, but sometimes life is biased