July 2, 2020 12:31 pm at 12:31 pm #1878860brucecy92Participant
I want to try dating some more modern guys but not that modern. Would they have good learning boys on saw you at sinai ? Does it cost money?July 2, 2020 2:28 pm at 2:28 pm #1878973pekakParticipant
Registration is free but if you want to accept a shidduch it costs money. There’s no way of knowing what’s available. You don’t get to make your own searches. Matchmakers do the searching and will try their best. I’ve never had any luck.July 2, 2020 4:48 pm at 4:48 pm #1879034The Shady CharediParticipant
The shadchan fee is not an obligation. They only encourage you to give a shadchanus just like one would to any ‘regular’ shadchan.
They have people who run the whole gammut of observance levels. What you’re describing sounds like their category of ‘modern-machmir’, or something similar, which the site definitely caters to also.
Hatzlocha.July 2, 2020 4:55 pm at 4:55 pm #1879045pekakParticipant
I was talking about the site fee.July 3, 2020 9:44 am at 9:44 am #1879165avnerkParticipant
you may want to try jwed.com where you can search all profiles for free, but there is a fee to initiate a message, no fee to reply to a message.July 3, 2020 3:23 pm at 3:23 pm #1879241LAmotherParticipant
1. I met my husband on Jwed, then called frumster. Internet with all its faults, does open up the world for long distance marriages
2. Im a 4 yr matchmaker on sawyouatsinai its defiently worth a shot. I could send u a month link for free but I dunno how to get my email address to u or vice versa on this site. Theres all different on there but modern yeshivish is well represented. As is modern machmir. When I do matches I look at such things as would soemone watch movies in theater or at home etc. There slots of ways to see basic hashgafa. I want u to know theres more girls than guys in this category. That does NOT mean theres a shiduch crises. I dont believe there is! Hashem doesnt decide plonk for ploni only for men and not women. Join for a month spend the money and pick me as a mathmaker I’ll search for u for a few weeks I have an email address actually I can provide I dont check too often [email protected]July 3, 2020 5:42 pm at 5:42 pm #1879331yitzymotchaParticipant
I assume by “learning guy” you mean a bochur sitting in yeshiva learning and in shidduchim. Wouldn’t such bochrim be getting set up by their rebbyim and chaverim and shachanim. Especially the Lakewood types? Either way, good luck with shiduchim.July 7, 2020 1:36 pm at 1:36 pm #1880390HistorianParticipant
We all wish you, you find your bashert and build a Bayis NeemonJuly 12, 2020 8:23 pm at 8:23 pm #1881606KGNParticipant
Hashem knows what is best. SYAS was not working for me after a 2 years of being a member. It may work for modern-leaning people who prefer w matchmaker. It is not psychologically healthy for a man to constantly be seeking women.July 13, 2020 12:35 pm at 12:35 pm #1881802bsharg2Participant
It’s worth a shot
Hatzlacha!July 19, 2020 4:46 pm at 4:46 pm #1883680ChananiaLParticipant
You can try KYS. Not a large member pool, but who knows maybe you will find someone.July 23, 2020 12:22 am at 12:22 am #1885785opinionated-2Participant
It is not psychologically healthy for a man to constantly be seeking women.
What is your reasoning?July 23, 2020 9:09 pm at 9:09 pm #1886244charliehallParticipant
I met my wife on jwed when it was still frumster!
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