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    Smick.
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    ok so for some reason I have this person, that I talk to on a regular basis…. Everytime I say anything that is going really great the opposite happens.. and same with the visa versa… I am really frustrated about it… I feel like not telling her anything ever again!! But she always makes me feel bad when i don’t share things with her… is she jelous of me or something??? Is that what may be causing this ALWAYS to happen????? Why does this have to happen to me???!!!! WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :'( -please note I don’t make these sad faces often!!! I’m REALLY disturbed by this!!!

    *Please note;- I’m not lacking bitochon, I strongly believe everything in bidei shamayim. Ayin hora could be a possiblity…-but how can I not share things with a good friend??? I would find that way tooooo hard!!

    #811263
    am yisrael chai
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    “how can I not share things with a good friend?”

    -“she always makes me feel bad when i don’t share things with her.”

    -“is she jealous of me or something?”

    The last two items listed do NOT support the concept of a best friend and definitely shows manipulation, a lack of respect and boundaries.

    Perhaps you discuss this with her.

    #811264
    mak
    Member

    Maybe share with her things that are going bad.

    #811265
    Smick.
    Member

    mak: I thought about that, but it’s too much out of my nature..

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