ok so for some reason I have this person, that I talk to on a regular basis…. Everytime I say anything that is going really great the opposite happens.. and same with the visa versa… I am really frustrated about it… I feel like not telling her anything ever again!! But she always makes me feel bad when i don’t share things with her… is she jelous of me or something??? Is that what may be causing this ALWAYS to happen????? Why does this have to happen to me???!!!! WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :'( -please note I don’t make these sad faces often!!! I’m REALLY disturbed by this!!!
*Please note;- I’m not lacking bitochon, I strongly believe everything in bidei shamayim. Ayin hora could be a possiblity…-but how can I not share things with a good friend??? I would find that way tooooo hard!!
“how can I not share things with a good friend?”
-“she always makes me feel bad when i don’t share things with her.”
-“is she jealous of me or something?”
The last two items listed do NOT support the concept of a best friend and definitely shows manipulation, a lack of respect and boundaries.
Perhaps you discuss this with her.
Maybe share with her things that are going bad.
mak: I thought about that, but it’s too much out of my nature..