Segula for a Shidduch

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  • #592175
    lol…
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    Anyone know of any Segulos for a Shidduch?

    #693231
    bpt
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    Anavah.

    When I entered the dating circut, my father told me, “if she will marry you, despite your shortcomings, you should be willing to overlook her shortcomings.

    It worked for him, and it worked for me!

    #693232
    blinky
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    Find other ppl who are also in need of a shidduch and daven for each other. I know a group of single girls who each have a chelek of tehillim to say every night so that the entire tehillim is completed every night as a zechus for a shidduch. Its amazing how many girls from that group are engaged/married, and new girls take over. B’hatzlacha!

    #693233
    Mayan_Dvash
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    I heard that you should have in mind yourself or someone who needs a shidduch when saying Kiddush Levana. This was at a Shavuos night shiur given by Harav Laibel Katz. His source was a sefer written by the Steipler or one of his sons, if I recall correctly.

    #693234
    blinky
    Participant

    Mayan Dvash- i also heard about Kiddush Levana- i actually know of some girls who said it (obviously privately)… Well they are married now;)

    #693235
    laguy
    Member

    The best segulah I heard of is dating…

    #693236
    Pashuteh Yid
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    What kind of wine do you need for kiddush levana?

    #693237
    AZ
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    I’m not sure if the following ideas qualify as segulos but i do know that they work….

    #1 Let shadchanim (professional and non professional) know that you trully appreciate the ridiculous amount of time, effort and dedication that it takes to get even one date off the ground. Let them know that you are commited to compensating them for that. (Each person would decide what is appropriate compenstion for the result of getting to a date #2/date #4.)

    This works plain and pashut, it has been tested will fantastic results…

    #693238
    rt
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    for a boy, take a nap erev Shabbos, that’s what Adam HaRishon did

    #693239
    apushatayid
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    LAGuy has the best segula yet.

    #693240
    Dr. Pepper
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    AZ-

    Welcome back!

    #693241
    bpt
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    LaGuy –

    I was going to use that line, too! (Nice to see I’m not the onlu wisecracker in the group)

    #693242

    Tefilla

    #693243
    Health
    Participant

    Pashuteh yid – Kamyan z”l used to say -“How are you mekadesh the Levanah- with Kesef, Shtarr or etc…?”

    #693244
    Health
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    Laguy – What if you can’t get a date?

    #693245
    AZ
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    #2- For girls- Find ways to encourage close in age shidduchim. Simply put that will give the individual a better chance of having someone to marry. Once againg I don’t know if this is a segula but it certainly helps the general klal as well as the individual.

    for boys it is certainly a segula as chazal tell us helping someone in a situation that you yourself need help evokes siyata dishmaya in that same realm)

    #693246
    dunno
    Member

    Noooo!! Not the age gap again!!!

    #693247
    AZ
    Participant

    dunno: I’m sorry if that bothers you, but alleviating the Age Gap is clearly the greatest “segula” out there.

    #693248
    tomim tihye
    Member

    I’m not a big segula-doer, but I did receive THE call (“I have THE guy for you…”) on the fortieth consecutive day of my recital of Shir HaShirim!

    #693249
    panther
    Member

    There is this segulah that you light a candle for forty consecutive days. when you light it you say that it’s ‘l’zecher nishmas Rav Menachem Mendel ben Reb Yosef M’riminov Zechuso yagen aleinu’ and have in mind the shidduch (or any other thing) also you should have in mind to publish somewhere that you were helped thru that. ( and to really write it somewhere in a public forum)

    #693250
    AZ
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    #3

    Figure out a way to have boys come to lakewood before their 23rd birthday.

    That would create an additonal 600 kallas over the next few years.

    sounds like a great segula to me

    AZ this thread is about segulas. Please start another thread if you like. We haven’t had an age gap thread for quite a while.

    #693251
    blinky
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    panther- i’ve heard of that too! Someone who does it said that on the 40th day always something good happened (the shidduch was read…etc.)

    p.s. its not just for shiddduchim its for a ny bakasha.

    #693252
    panther
    Member

    i did put in that it’s for anything.

    #693253
    blinky
    Participant

    Oops, your right-sorry I didn’t notice.

    #693254
    justdaven
    Member

    Just Daven! (Winning the lottery also wouldn’t hurt.)

    #693255
    bein_hasdorim
    Participant

    Be honest and upfront, but don’t dispense all your baggage on the first date. also for girls, dont wear too much makeup!

    you’re all beautiful just the way you are.

    You dont want him to go running and call the cops,

    the first time he sees you w/o makeup, saying

    “there’s someone else in the house!”

    #693256
    blinky
    Participant

    bein hasdorim-hahahahahaha. Btw, in general, not just for dating, girls should not wear too much makeup regardless.

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