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    Bar Shattya
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    Among the list of requirements of a girl seeking a seminary is “where do the good girls go?”

    Just wondering, It is not debatable that the reason for seminary is to get a good shidduch. Why does nobody ask “where do the good boys want me to go?” It seems to me they should just say it how it is. The “good girls” is defined by which shidduchim they get. Why is Shidduchim all about lying? Just say it how it is.

    #1115041
    skiaddict
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    The good boys are defined by which good girls they get! Sorry but when i went to sem i was not thinking of boys. I was thinking of where i would shteig the most zeh hu. It is because good girls go to particular seminaries, that the boys decide that is a good sem, not the other way!

    #1115042
    OneOfMany
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    It is not debatable that the reason for seminary is to get a good shidduch.

    I am willing to debate that.

    #1115043
    Bar Shattya
    Member

    shteig?! shteig?! HA HA HA HA HA. what are you talking about? are you drunk? you aught to see someone about that. seminaries are for girls. I dont know how they let you in. I’m certainly happy you weren’t thinking about boys chee chee chee. you nutcase.

    #1115044
    Bar Shattya
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    @ one of many:

    I didnt say you are not willing. I said its not debatable. Someone who doesn’t know the difference doesn’t seem like the type I would attempt to have an intelligible conversation with.

    #1115045
    OneOfMany
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    I don’t remember Bar Shattya being this unpleasant…who are you and what have you done with the real Bar Shattya?!

    #1115046
    skiaddict
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    Sure youre not the drunk one mate?

    #1115047
    Bar Shattya
    Member

    The real bar shattya might have died making way for the heir. Anyway, really? you think most people nowadays have anything on their mind besides shidduchim?? maybe in your day.

    #1115048
    Bar Shattya
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    oneofmany

    You remind me of the time i spoke somewhere and someone commented “if you listen carefully he actually said something”

    #1115049
    skiaddict
    Member

    Why do i laugh at your posts although your such a moron??

    #1115050
    Bar Shattya
    Member

    you have to read carefully to see my “pintele” brain

    #1115051
    OneOfMany
    Participant

    Hm, no go for intelligible? Then I’ll go for unintelligible.

    I dno’t tihnk taht serimanies are shudidch fatcoreis. It’s simply unenocmoical. Perant ptus dwon roghuly $20,000 for sem, duaghter needs to wiat aruond 2-3 yaers to get her dergee = $20,000-30,000 (hack colelges dno’t cut it no mroe), duaghter is now 23 and needs to pay NASI $6,000+ for a date, and wednidng is anohter $20,000+. The paretns are now finihsed. And it’s the serimanies’ fualt. They are the ture cuase of the enocomic crisis. Heck, they probalby cuased the shudidch crisis too. Girl shuold stay home, get marired, get sheital macher dergee, make it rich qucik (in that order).

    #1115052
    yashrus20
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    Boys used to go to brisk for kodshim..now they go for nashim. hehe couldent hold myself back!

    #1115053
    mytake
    Member

    “Just wondering, It is not debatable that the reason for seminary is to get a good shidduch.”

    I must be doomed. Never went to Seminary. Oh, well, I’ll just hafta settle. Smoker, maybe.

    #1115054
    Sabzi
    Member

    mytake…. lol

    #1115056
    👑RebYidd23
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    #1115057
    Mammele
    Participant

    RY thanks for the laugh. Couldn’t be bothered to even write “bump” but the thread remains funny…

    Or maybe it’s something about “seeing your pintele brain”?

    #1115058
    mavmav
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    Be a leader! Not a follower.

    Go to the seminary that’s best for you and make it the top seminary, change the reputation!

    And if you don’t go to the classics, thats fine. when guys see resumes, they all look pretty much the same, yours will stand out! and that can never hurt.

    #1115059
    Hashemisreading
    Participant

    Yes, it can hurt.

    #1115060
    wannabegood7
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    when i was choosing seminaries i did not put shidduch into the decision. i based my decision on which seminary would help me grow the most!!! u need to set ur priorities straight!

    #1115061
    technical21
    Participant

    It’s true that many people go to seminary for shidduchim. That’s why BJJ has so many girls who don’t belong there:) Well, that and name-dropping.

    That being said, not everyone takes shidduchim into account when choosing a seminary. People do try to find a place where they will grow spiritually, emotionally, and intellectually (in that order-or at least that’s the point of sem, IMO), gain more independence, find new friends, and generally change for the better.

    #1115062
    Shopping613 🌠
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    I’m not thinking of shidduchim when I go to seminary at all. I think I might end up in an out of box sem. That’s okay. I don’t want a production line bochur anyway.

    #1115063
    FriendInFlatbush
    Participant

    Who said all the good girls go to seminary?

    #1115064
    Hashemisreading
    Participant

    Who said the good girl seminaries have only good girls? I recall going out with a lot of bad apples.

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