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My sister recently got divorced. She was only married for 6 months and had no kids baruch Hashem. Can anyone recommend shadchanim who would know guys for her? She is a great great girl.
I would think she could go to the same shadchanim that anyone else goes to. But am I being naive? Certainly, if she were older, she could, but maybe it’s different if you’re young? Did she try regular shadchanim? Maybe even if they can’t help her, they would know other shadchanim who could?
I don’t think it is appropriate to say her having had no kids was a positive attribute.
Oh please
You may want to ask a shailoh if she has to wait 90 days from the date of the divorce to start in the shidduch process again.
Iacisrmma – would the sheilah be in terms of dating or only in terms of marriage? And would it be from the date of the Get or the date of separation?
Gtll -“My sister recently got divorced”
Maybe she should look into why her marriage didn’t work out.
There’s no rush to get married again!
WB Health. Where have you been?
LOL!! @ Mod’s “Oh please”
She doesn’t have to be in a rush to meet with a shadchan.
Talking to the shadchan may help her deal with why she got divorced (selecting a more suitable mate for her for life).
Also that wasn’t really answering her question.
Some shadchanim specialize in helping certain populations of individuals. It can enhance their focus and pool of potential applicants.
Then again some may do well working with anyone and everyone.
On the other hand, others may serve underserved singles, such as individuals who have been divorced, are older, and/or have specific health issues.
Where is dear Mussar47? She(?) may have references B”H
It seems from the Kitzur Shulchan Aruch (Hilchos Ishus Sif Yud Gimmel) it is from the day after the Get was given. Please consult a Rav. (I only mentioned this because you you stated that it was ‘recently’).
Anyone who has gone through such a traumatic experience has certainly thought a lot about this decision.
It is actually quite impressive that she is already ready to move on and date again. Many people would not be able to do so. Kol hakavod!
iac, dating or remarriage?
“Please consult a Rav.”
Of course she has to ask a sheilah – I was just curious since you brought it up. I would imagine the issue is marrying, not dating though, which is unlikely to be an issue anyhow. But of course, she should ask a Rav in any case, as you pointed out.
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LU -“WB Health. Where have you been?”
I’m sorry; I never left.
I’m the type of poster that only posts on topics that I’m interested in, not every topic!
Glad you’re around Health!
Mrs B Stein, Mrs L Speigel and Mrs C Most all in Lakewood focus on divorce. i’m not sure if i’m allowed to post their email or phone numbers.
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