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  • July 28, 2011 8:09 pm at 8:09 pm #598284
    cshapiro
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    I know we have discussed this many times in the cr, however heres my situation. My cousin and his sister were the ones who suggested it, however they were not actively involved in our dating…we definitely feel we owe a tremendous amount of appreciation to both of them, what would be an appropriate gift? I know everyone wants cash, but it could be tacky at times.

    July 28, 2011 8:13 pm at 8:13 pm #791631
    dunno
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    Aaaahhh!!! Mazel tov!!!!!

    July 28, 2011 8:17 pm at 8:17 pm #791632
    TheGoq
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    Isn’t his sister your cousin too?

    July 28, 2011 8:46 pm at 8:46 pm #791633
    cshapiro
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    my cousin is related to me…..and his sister is related to him

    July 28, 2011 9:39 pm at 9:39 pm #791634
    netazar
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    half-sister? step-sister? cousin-by-marriage?

    July 28, 2011 10:03 pm at 10:03 pm #791635
    Ofcourse
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    Tacky my foot! Ask them!

    July 29, 2011 11:55 am at 11:55 am #791636
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    My cousin and his sister

    In other words, your cousin, and the chosson’s sister.

    There is almost definitely shadchanus owed. The proper person to ask how much, is a rov.

    Mazel tov!

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