I know we have discussed this many times in the cr, however heres my situation. My cousin and his sister were the ones who suggested it, however they were not actively involved in our dating…we definitely feel we owe a tremendous amount of appreciation to both of them, what would be an appropriate gift? I know everyone wants cash, but it could be tacky at times.
Aaaahhh!!! Mazel tov!!!!!
Isn’t his sister your cousin too?
my cousin is related to me…..and his sister is related to him
half-sister? step-sister? cousin-by-marriage?
Tacky my foot! Ask them!
My cousin and his sister
In other words, your cousin, and the chosson’s sister.
There is almost definitely shadchanus owed. The proper person to ask how much, is a rov.