Shalom Bayis and Being M’vattar

Hi,

I have a few sources from which it can be inferred that in a husband/wife disagreement being m’vattar isn’t always the correct approach. Sometimes, the husband for example, has to put his foot down as it were. For instance, when Avrohum Avinu told Sarah that she did indeed laugh and that it was inappropriate. My question is, does anyone know of a source that says this openly/clearly with regards to a husband and wife and when is it applied? To me it seems to be in cases where it is truth vs shalom. In those cases the truth should prevail.