A fair argument doesn’t require making someone look bad. In the Beis Medrash we also disprove other’s arguments to their face without it being considered bad form or shaming.
@ujm, this is closer to having a discussion is a kava steeble or a haiser mikva, a fair exchange of opinion and no one is shame nor has his mind changed by what someone has to say.
>A fair argument doesn�t require making someone look bad.<
Not always, but sometimes you want to point out a contradiction or fallacy, which you wouldn’t have done in public, but in the CR you have no other choice.
Take for example Charlie, it could be it�s not the real Charlie hall and maybe a student or relative that took the name, unless you know it�s really him (like Yossi z when he used to post here) but I would tell him privately)