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December 26, 2011 5:10 am at 5:10 am #601303yashrus20Member
singles making shidduchim..should they try to come up with ideas or its not correct until they are married?
December 26, 2011 5:28 am at 5:28 am #838612OneOfManyParticipantWe really need to put a ceiling on the amount of sh______chim threads allowed per day…
December 26, 2011 9:37 am at 9:37 am #838613matsav20Memberyashrus20 – why not?
i think its depend the “hashkafah”
some people are ok with that and other …
December 26, 2011 2:36 pm at 2:36 pm #838614oomisParticipantAnyone, everyone, if you can think, you can talk, and you can dial a phone, MAKE SHIDDUCHIM. Just do it with seichel and kindness.
December 26, 2011 6:20 pm at 6:20 pm #838615golden momMemberi think its great what some people do so they will get listhen to is they have a married person like there parents or somebody ret it and if it works out they say who the real person is
December 26, 2011 6:21 pm at 6:21 pm #838616golden momMemberi think its great what some people do so they will get listhen to is they have a married person like there parents or somebody ret it and if it works out they say who the real person is
December 26, 2011 6:32 pm at 6:32 pm #838617ayshosheeParticipantwhy not as long as theyre mature singles who know what they are doing than i think its totally fine
December 26, 2011 7:34 pm at 7:34 pm #838618bein_hasdorimParticipantR U Kidding Me? The BEST SHADCHANIM are the single ppl, they
have no Negius. Not really doing it for money,
they understand what it is means to help someone find their Basherte.
I even know a friend of mine who his original Shadchan was a 14yo girl. (she told her parents this boy wud be good for …)
Single shadchanim of the world, “keep up the good work!” 🙂
December 26, 2011 7:52 pm at 7:52 pm #838619TheGoqParticipantAyshoshee i want to assure you that there are plenty immature marrieds out there as well, i dont know if u intended to imply that alot of singles are immature but i dont think that is the case.
December 27, 2011 6:22 pm at 6:22 pm #838620ayshosheeParticipantya i know but the subject was questioning singles i dont think immatured married people should be making shidduchim i think a person who is making a shidduch should be mature to some extent and know the purpose of marriage not just oh nice boy nice girl they need to understand certain things to be able to put people together
December 27, 2011 6:47 pm at 6:47 pm #838621matsav20Memberayshoshee – ttly agree with you
December 27, 2011 6:56 pm at 6:56 pm #838622MCPMemberIt should be encouraged!
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