December 26, 2011 5:10 am at 5:10 am #601303yashrus20Member
singles making shidduchim..should they try to come up with ideas or its not correct until they are married?December 26, 2011 5:28 am at 5:28 am #838612OneOfManyParticipant
We really need to put a ceiling on the amount of sh______chim threads allowed per day…December 26, 2011 9:37 am at 9:37 am #838613matsav20Member
yashrus20 – why not?
i think its depend the “hashkafah”
some people are ok with that and other …December 26, 2011 2:36 pm at 2:36 pm #838614oomisParticipant
Anyone, everyone, if you can think, you can talk, and you can dial a phone, MAKE SHIDDUCHIM. Just do it with seichel and kindness.December 26, 2011 6:20 pm at 6:20 pm #838615golden momMember
i think its great what some people do so they will get listhen to is they have a married person like there parents or somebody ret it and if it works out they say who the real person isDecember 26, 2011 6:21 pm at 6:21 pm #838616golden momMember
i think its great what some people do so they will get listhen to is they have a married person like there parents or somebody ret it and if it works out they say who the real person isDecember 26, 2011 6:32 pm at 6:32 pm #838617ayshosheeParticipant
why not as long as theyre mature singles who know what they are doing than i think its totally fineDecember 26, 2011 7:34 pm at 7:34 pm #838618bein_hasdorimParticipant
R U Kidding Me? The BEST SHADCHANIM are the single ppl, they
have no Negius. Not really doing it for money,
they understand what it is means to help someone find their Basherte.
I even know a friend of mine who his original Shadchan was a 14yo girl. (she told her parents this boy wud be good for …)
Single shadchanim of the world, “keep up the good work!” 🙂December 26, 2011 7:52 pm at 7:52 pm #838619TheGoqParticipant
Ayshoshee i want to assure you that there are plenty immature marrieds out there as well, i dont know if u intended to imply that alot of singles are immature but i dont think that is the case.December 27, 2011 6:22 pm at 6:22 pm #838620ayshosheeParticipant
ya i know but the subject was questioning singles i dont think immatured married people should be making shidduchim i think a person who is making a shidduch should be mature to some extent and know the purpose of marriage not just oh nice boy nice girl they need to understand certain things to be able to put people togetherDecember 27, 2011 6:47 pm at 6:47 pm #838621matsav20Member
ayshoshee – ttly agree with youDecember 27, 2011 6:56 pm at 6:56 pm #838622MCPMember
It should be encouraged!
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