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    yashrus20
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    singles making shidduchim..should they try to come up with ideas or its not correct until they are married?

    #838612
    OneOfMany
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    We really need to put a ceiling on the amount of sh______chim threads allowed per day…

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    matsav20
    Member

    yashrus20 – why not?

    i think its depend the “hashkafah”

    some people are ok with that and other …

    #838614
    oomis
    Participant

    Anyone, everyone, if you can think, you can talk, and you can dial a phone, MAKE SHIDDUCHIM. Just do it with seichel and kindness.

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    golden mom
    Member

    i think its great what some people do so they will get listhen to is they have a married person like there parents or somebody ret it and if it works out they say who the real person is

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    golden mom
    Member

    i think its great what some people do so they will get listhen to is they have a married person like there parents or somebody ret it and if it works out they say who the real person is

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    ayshoshee
    Participant

    why not as long as theyre mature singles who know what they are doing than i think its totally fine

    #838618
    bein_hasdorim
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    R U Kidding Me? The BEST SHADCHANIM are the single ppl, they

    have no Negius. Not really doing it for money,

    they understand what it is means to help someone find their Basherte.

    I even know a friend of mine who his original Shadchan was a 14yo girl. (she told her parents this boy wud be good for …)

    Single shadchanim of the world, “keep up the good work!” 🙂

    #838619
    TheGoq
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    Ayshoshee i want to assure you that there are plenty immature marrieds out there as well, i dont know if u intended to imply that alot of singles are immature but i dont think that is the case.

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    ayshoshee
    Participant

    ya i know but the subject was questioning singles i dont think immatured married people should be making shidduchim i think a person who is making a shidduch should be mature to some extent and know the purpose of marriage not just oh nice boy nice girl they need to understand certain things to be able to put people together

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    matsav20
    Member

    ayshoshee – ttly agree with you

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    MCP
    Member

    It should be encouraged!

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